My Belly Fat Refuses To Go! My Girl Is Worried
@Wanisheik (21)
Accra, Ghana
April 3, 2023 3:12am CST
Despite my best efforts, my belly fat refused to budge. Every time I looked in the mirror, I see a round stomach staring back at me. My girlfriend has expressed her concern about my inability to get rid of it. She feels I'm too young to develop a pot belly and that it is making me less attractive.
Because of the fear of losing her, I try to stay motivated, but every failed attempt makes me feel more discouraged. I am gradually beginning to lose hope and might soon come to terms with resigning myself to a lifetime of carrying around this extra weight.
I don't know what to do anymore.
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@rakski (125934)
• Philippines
3 Apr 23
@Wanisheik health is different with the appearance. If health is much more concern, then that's good. If appearance, well, 
it's another thing. Is she ashamed to be with you just because of your belly?
it's another thing. Is she ashamed to be with you just because of your belly?@Wanisheik (21)
• Accra, Ghana
3 Apr 23
Well, you have a point but she's been complaining a lot lately. She keeps talking about my health and how I'm not eating right but I know it all has to do with me appearing like a sugar daddy
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@arunima25 (87854)
• Bangalore, India
3 Apr 23
Well, a pot belly or extra weight is never good for health reasons. More than being attractive, health and fitness should be your main concern. Sometimes it takes longer time to get rid off extra weight. It doesn't come easy to everyone. Just keep doing, the result might take some time.
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@Wanisheik (21)
• Accra, Ghana
3 Apr 23
I know it's not healthy but the thing won't just go away. It's really frustrating
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@arunima25 (87854)
• Bangalore, India
3 Apr 23
@Wanisheik You have to keep motivating yourself and keep doing your exercise and maintain a healthy lifestyle. It will happen..it might take longer than you expect. Don't give up.
And physical appearance should not bother your girlfriend if she truly loves you.
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@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
16 May 23
do it one step at a time. start by eating less rice in the evening.
rice has a big impact on our big stomach 
but nevertheless, it should not be the reason for your girl to not like you.
if she loves you, she will love your body too.
love shouldn't be based solely on the appearance.
but nevertheless, it should not be the reason for your girl to not like you.
if she loves you, she will love your body too.
love shouldn't be based solely on the appearance.
@HomewardBound (552)
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4 Apr 23
Don’t get discouraged, getting healthy takes time. But don’t do it to please anyone else, do it for you!
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