How to be a fun person?

By Meli
Indonesia
April 26, 2023 6:32pm CST
Hello friend, how are you? I hope you all in good condition always. :) After a long time I didn't write because I was a little lazy, now I will write another discussion. LOL Come on, let's discuss how to be a fun person? Often I observe someone asking someone else to talk, but don't seem to get a very good response. It's sad, but that's the reality. :( Is it because he is a foreigner that he is not treated as well as you treat someone close to you? Is it because of his annoying and boring personality to talk to? Or other reasons. So, let's discuss here, How do you think you can be a fun person, so that many people are interested in talking and interacting well with you? Thank you. :)
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@DaddyEvil (137634)
• United States
27 Apr 23
I don't know... I just talk with people and they usually talk with me...
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@DaddyEvil (137634)
• United States
27 Apr 23
@astutimeliana723 There isn't a "secret". I just enjoy talking with people.
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• Indonesia
27 Apr 23
@DaddyEvil But but I often comment on other people's posts, and don't get a response and that makes me sad.
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• Indonesia
27 Apr 23
But you have the secret, tell me or..
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@rakski (126052)
• Philippines
27 Apr 23
I think being yourself is important
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@rakski (126052)
• Philippines
27 Apr 23
@astutimeliana723 but you can be fun with just being yourself, right?
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• Indonesia
27 Apr 23
Yes you are right. But I want to be fun person.
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• Indonesia
27 Apr 23
@rakski Yes, you are right. But I feel my personality is fun.
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@AmbiePam (93883)
• United States
27 Apr 23
I think perhaps cultural differences keep people from interacting on mylot. As for in person interactions, maybe too many of us are just unsure of how to approach another person, and wonder are they being friendly enough? Or, perhaps are they being too familiar?
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@AmbiePam (93883)
• United States
27 Apr 23
@JimBo452020 I have missed a LOT.
@AmbiePam (93883)
• United States
27 Apr 23
@JimBo452020 Oh, absolutely. And some people could get vicious.
• Indonesia
27 Apr 23
@JimBo452020 Ahaha, I even just joined since 3 months ago. So, don't know anything that happened before that.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
27 Apr 23
Yeah, I want to know how to be fun too
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
27 Apr 23
@astutimeliana723 stranger, danger!
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• Indonesia
27 Apr 23
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• Indonesia
27 Apr 23
In my opinion is being kind and friendly, but no all stranger like it. I often talk to other stranger people and they aren't respons me. SAD.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Apr 23
I don’t try to be a fun person. People can take me as I am or not at all.
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• Indonesia
27 Apr 23
Ahaha, looks like you have a cool personality like me too. LOL
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Apr 23
@JimBo452020 Thank you Jimbo. You actually are a fun guy.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
27 Apr 23
@astutimeliana723 I wouldn’t say that. Im just plain simple me.
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@rheicel (7065)
• Philippines
27 Apr 23
I'm a shy person but when it comes to interacting with another person I try to be a good listener to them so I could respond well.
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@rheicel (7065)
• Philippines
27 Apr 23
@astutimeliana723 Oh dear don't feel that way not all people are mean. I'm sure there are good people out there who want to be friends with you.
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• Indonesia
27 Apr 23
@rheicel Thank you very much, I hope so. And you are the one of the good people, I like you.
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• Indonesia
27 Apr 23
Yes, I'm also a shy person. I often worry that my presence will not be accepted, sometimes I even worry that no one wants to be friends with me.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
1 May 23
It's difficult to be a fun person because I am not naturally so. You may want to scour MyLot to find these fun people. May I recommend one for you? Try interacting with many so you can find out for yourself, Your idea of fun may be different from mine,
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• Indonesia
1 May 23
Yes, you are right. That's one way to get fun person as friend.
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@RebeccasFarm (90464)
• Arvada, Colorado
27 Apr 23
You can just think you are and magically you will be fun.
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• Indonesia
27 Apr 23
But I am not magic.
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