How to move on with the pain?
By Gilbert Jaco
@BeeWeezer (18)
May 24, 2023 4:01am CST
Soon, we will be commemorating my brother's 4th year death anniversary.
Yes, the pain never dies. It's been always there, you will just get used to it. It feels like having a heavy block in your pocket that you carry around.
There were just four of us - 2 boys and 2 girls. So, when he passed away, I was not able to contain my emotions that day when they were about to bury him. I don't want that "scene" to linger in my mind for the rest of my life. All that I wish to remember is his handsome face just in deep sleep.
Yes, I can move forward but I can't move on. He was just 52 when he passed away.
Oh, I miss him a lot!
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9 responses
@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
24 May 23
It's always hard to lose family... But we still have to live our lives and move on. I'm sorry you've lost a brother.
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@DaddyEvil (137257)
• United States
24 May 23
@leighnyork I've lost five brothers and one sister since the pandemic began. I know how difficult it is.
@ihasaquestion (8274)
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24 May 23
So sorry for your loss. Talking of fond memories you had with him to your other siblings may help.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 May 23
I'm sorry for your loss.
We were the same in my family. I'm the oldest and my brother next to me in age passed away in 2014 at 59.
@MarieCoyle (37105)
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25 May 23
I lost my only sibling. We were very, very close and it was hard. I still think of her, and still miss her. I'm sorry for the loss of your brother. Try to remember the good times you shared together if you can. That really helps me.
