Do you prefer Grand Wedding or Simple Wedding without Crowd ?

I always like simple weddings and I am lucky that I did have a kinda simple one. I don't feel comfortable around too many people. I know all girls dream big but I always wanted the opposite.

Many women would prefer a grand wedding, as I have talked to a lot of my friends and relatives about their dream wedding. The reason is that wedding comes only once in life and they wanted it to be a grand thing and extraordinary. I have nothing against that. But I beg to differ. Practically, I would stay at a simple wedding, with only two of us, or maybe with a few chosen close people. I have different reasons for my own. You wed and that's it. You, two become One, grand or simple. But I'm looking for the importance of marriage, that the expenses incurred throughout the grand wedding my be utilized instead for a house, and savings for the future family.

I am glad that you had a nice wedding and nice food. I just got married at the court house in front of a judge.

I wanted a very private wedding, only a few good friends and relatives. In my country is very different than your country a big wedding means 200 to 300 guests never a thousand. I only had 30 guests any my wedding is lasting from 52 years.

I am not married but I have been to a lot of Hindu Marriages with my grandmother , I gotta say , the marriage halls are always Packed !

My wedding was attended by some family and friends, with 100 people attending, not many people. We were held at a banquet restaurant

As much as I like to have a big grand wedding, We can`t afford them. What is important is that we love each other and will be together forever

Congratulations It's wonderful that you enjoyed and had good times with your guests and family. Weddings are once-in-a-lifetime events, so whatever makes you happy, you should do it. I had a simple wedding with only my family and close friends present, and I was happy because I was marrying the man that I loved so dearly.

If one can afford it could be a grand wedding

Most people prefer a grand wedding, especially women but a grand wedding also need a big bug too. It is not affordable for everyone, so most men in India need to look at their pockets too.

I will never marry again..I am old but when I did marry I wanted a big wedding..did not get it.

I personally prefer a quiet simple but elegant wedding. Glad that my husband and daughters feel the same. But my wedding was a huge and real grand one. I was the only girl from both side of my family. And everyone wanted to have a grand one. . The guest lists from both sides were around 3500.

Simple Wedding would be better as I don't like show off

women prefer a grand weeding but when my time comes ill let my wife decide, at what age are you married

Wow! I don't think I could afford a wedding that large. I'd probably prefer a wedding of about 50 to 75 guests. I'm not married yet, but I doubt if my future husband cared if my wedding was fairly small. But hey, if that is what you wanted for your wedding, then congratulations! It sounds amazing, and I bet it was! I wish you many happy years of marriage.

Simple wedding, without crowd makes more sense . Most of the times it's only 2 to 4 individuals in your life for whom your presence in this World matters to them. My wedding was bit crowded . Majority of them perceived I never existed . If they are not invited they will get pain of not getting invited for somebody they considered never existed. After wedding once again I became invisible. The best part of my life is , one's who are close to my heart, they are still with me !.

Grand or small wedding, both are good. But I prefer a simple wedding where only a few people are invited. Maybe just family members? That was my dream of marriage since I was a teenager. I hope my future husband can understand it.