What Type of things Attracts you to a Discussion?

By Raj
India
May 30, 2023 5:27am CST
I can write for myself and then others can share what keeps them attracted towards a discussion. First I Look at the heading of the discussion to see if I am interested. Second I look at the user because I have seen others not even interested in to reply Thirdly if they are one of my friends whom I like to chat then I will ignore the first point and will be attracted to the discussion even if it's on a subject that I am not interested in What Type of things Attracts you to a Discussion?
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@allknowing (142145)
• India
30 May 23
There are a few factors that attract me to posts. Topic should be interesting, and the user has been interacting with me on a regular basis
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• India
30 May 23
Yes I do the same too
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• Kenya
30 May 23
That's good it also enables you to feel some sense of connection
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• Kenya
30 May 23
@Butterfingers I too I can relate
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@LadyDuck (472496)
• Switzerland
30 May 23
There are no many new discussions posted every day in myLot. I read almost all of them, let's say I skip only those I judge not interesting and where I know the user does not interact.
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@LadyDuck (472496)
• Switzerland
30 May 23
@Butterfingers I am not in the mood of posting.
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• India
30 May 23
@LadyDuck I am also finding hard to post but posting this one somehow
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• India
30 May 23
Yes I also don't see many, maybe I should start posting more
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
30 May 23
The topic and the user. Also, I try to reply to the discussions of people who religiously reply to my own discussions. Love begets love, so to speak. I always give back what I receive in return.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
30 May 23
@Laurakemunto I can't think of an appropriate term, do you have one?
• India
30 May 23
Well done, I also do the same but sometimes I forget to visit their discussions separately but if I see these in recent ones then I always answer
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• Kenya
30 May 23
Hahaha I love the part " who religiously answer yours" I do the same for sure
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@DaddyEvil (143325)
• United States
30 May 23
I look at the title and then see who wrote the discussion... Either one of those can get me to respond on an interesting discussion. Sometimes, I'm just not interested or can't think of anything to say.
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@DaddyEvil (143325)
• United States
30 May 23
@Butterfingers Yeah, I see you talking on other discussions.
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• India
30 May 23
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• India
30 May 23
I can imagine and I am doing the same too
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@arunima25 (89387)
• Bangalore, India
30 May 23
Topics and users are the first thing to attract me. Anyway, once I am here, I would read and respond to the discussions in a series as much as I can without any discrimination.
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@arunima25 (89387)
• Bangalore, India
31 May 23
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• India
30 May 23
haha I do that at times but feel disappointed when I don't receive replies from them
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• Kenya
30 May 23
Yea I like your spirit no discrimination
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@jiwonnie (443)
• Philippines
30 May 23
I also look at the title first. Then I make sure if I could add something to that discussion because most of the time, I'm not sure what to say
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@jiwonnie (443)
• Philippines
30 May 23
@Butterfingers wish I could do this but it's hard to formulate a reply sometimes
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• India
30 May 23
@jiwonnie haha its possible you can answer in any way on my discussions
• India
30 May 23
Haha when I know its posted by one of my friends then I don't mind even if I don't know about the subject
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@AmbiePam (96508)
• United States
31 May 23
The first thing I look at is if it is written by someone on my friend list. If it is, I'm almost certain to respond to it because I put my friend's discussions, all of them, above anyone else's. I give my absolute best at trying to leave a response because I would hope they'd do the same for me. The second thing I look for is if it is a discussion I can add more than a one sentence response to. After tending to those on my friend list, I'd like to find discussions I can really add something to if I'm going to bother to respond.
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• India
1 Jun 23
That's very good. Thanks. I try to do the same
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@May2k8 (18478)
• Indonesia
31 May 23
the first thing I saw was the name of the author and also the contents inside.
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• India
31 May 23
That's what we all do and I think its must lol
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@sjvg1976 (42077)
• Delhi, India
4 Jun 23
I usually go by the top discussions because I know they are interesting discussions.
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@sjvg1976 (42077)
• Delhi, India
4 Jun 23
@Butterfingers You should check then you will come to know.
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• India
4 Jun 23
• India
4 Jun 23
Oh. I don't check these specifically
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@RebeccasFarm (92831)
• United States
30 May 23
I am attracted to many discussions by my friends here. I am always interested in what they are talking about. It could be anything at all. I sometimes like photos as well Raj. I am always interested in your discussions by the way. I do respond to users that do not interact with me too. It is not a necessity that is required by me for them to always be reacting to my stuff. Some people expect it. I do not.
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• United States
30 May 23
@Butterfingers Welcome Raj you too friend thanks kindly.
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• India
30 May 23
That's so kind of you. Thanks
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30 May 23
I answer to topics. If the topic looks interesting to me I will respond
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• India
30 May 23
That's important for me too
• Kenya
30 May 23
Good way to go
@Laurakemunto (13118)
• Kenya
30 May 23
Topics are what attracts me and also the users .
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• India
30 May 23
Good to know that, I am also the same
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• Kenya
30 May 23
@Butterfingers yea and if the user is always not available I leave it and answer under the responses of those who are usually active and do respond back to me always
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@leighnyork (1880)
30 May 23
For me I like enjoying reading anything but if I don't have anything to say, I wish them a nice day
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• India
31 May 23
Good way to keep the interaction going
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31 May 23
@Butterfingers really for me I'm not good in conversation
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• India
31 May 23
@leighnyork you are doing well
@ainnaqo66 (303)
• Indonesia
31 May 23
mostly it depends on topic that i can relate.
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• India
31 May 23
Yes it does help when we are aware of the topic
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@mayka123 (16905)
• India
30 May 23
I always look at the topic and if it is a topic of interest then would look at the user.
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• India
30 May 23
That's very good to know
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@wolfgirl569 (112968)
• Marion, Ohio
30 May 23
I read what looks interesting
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• India
30 May 23
Yes we all like to read interesting topics
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@JESSY3236 (20304)
• United States
30 May 23
Mostly titles and people
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• India
31 May 23
Yes titles are quite important
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@thelme55 (77378)
• Germany
30 May 23
The topics of discussions and the users that interact with me attract my attention.
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• India
31 May 23
Yes I feel most of us prefer this
@manikarnika (3236)
• India
31 May 23
I like especially motivational and general topics
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• India
31 May 23
That's good my friend
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@KityCat (7739)
• India
30 May 23
I love movie , food discussions , however , I will still check out the discussion if its something interesting . And yes , if its a user I know / frequently chat/respond with , I would be glad to check out the post irrespective of the topic .
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• India
30 May 23
That's same as me. Perfect
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