But how?

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Hey mylotters, Someone asked me "how can you be lonely if you have multiple partners?" I think it is important to touch on this. Lonliness can hound you no matter what... People get lonely. Lonliness doesnt matter how many partners you have or the level of fulfillment you have in those relationships. I feel lonely even with multiple partners because I suffered trauma... I feel lonely because I dont go out very much... I feel lonely because people turned their backs on me and hangout with people that hurt me... Sexually... I feel lonely because I dont have many people that I can talk about genetics, immunology or virology in detail with and that isnt their fault theyre specialised subjects. I could be in a room full of my partners and my friends and family and still feel alone and thats okay. It doesnt make me bad, it doesnt make me unappreciative. It makes me human.