Short story: A loner likes to be a loner
@innertalks (21916)
Australia
June 10, 2023 4:33am CST
Alam Froner was working as a reconciliation clerk at a large Communications company.
One day he was at work, and he was reconciling the bank accounts.
He had done the first month, and he had the other 11 months still to do.
The manager then appointed a helper to help Alam finish it quicker, as he, the manager, was going on holidays soon, and he wanted it finished before he went.
Alam was a bit upset by this, as he wanted to do it alone, using his own methods, and not have to show someone else his ideas.
This other worker, a man named Fred, arrived at Alam's desk to share it with him to enable closer working, which was also annoying to Alam.
Alam had to clear off some stuff to make room for him there.
The guy using Alam's desk before him had left a whole stack of collectable football papers/magazines there, on the wall side of the desk.
Alam said to Fred,
"We should not just bin these, as the guy might come looking for them someday."
Alam took them all, and the new guy followed him outside of the room, up the corridor, around a corner, or two, to a store room, where Alam shelved them on a shelf, still with some room on it there.
Then, they walked back to their room, but for some reason Fred walked very fast, moving well ahead of Alam, for some reason of his own.
Alam let him go ahead, but then Fred took a left turn, instead of a right. He had forgotten his way back.
He was too far ahead, for Alam to call out, and Alam didn't feel like doing so anyway.
Alam turned right, went down the corridor, and back to his desk.
Alam expected that Fred would realise he had taken a wrong turn, ask someone for directions, and turn up again later.
Alam did not like working closely with someone else like that, but preferred to work alone.
Alam finished the next month before the guy came back, and when he did come back, Alam was not there anymore. He had taken an early lunch.
Perhaps, Alam was showing Fred by this, by his not chasing after him, but letting him go wrong, that he did not like the play of the situation at all.
So, they had gotten off to a bad start.
Later, that afternoon, though, Alam had to buckle down, and show Fred what to do, to help him balance the bank reconciliations.
Alam had the last laugh though, as it took longer with them doing it together, than he would have taken on his own.
It was not finished by the time the boss was due to go on holiday, and he was upset about that.
Alam smiled, and said:
"Well, I had to show someone, who knew nothing about this job, how to do it, and then I had to correct all of the mistakes that he then made too."
"Sometimes, to get a job done quicker, it is better just for the one doing it to do it."
"An inexperienced sidekick just kicks the stool from under him, rather than helping to prop him up."
The Boss, winced, screwing up his face, did an about-turn, and went back to his office. He didn't want to get het up, when he was already half in his holiday mind, already.
Sometimes, we need to recognise the loner, and allow them to continue to be so, as they do their best work that way.
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Alam was a good worker, but he worked his best work on his own.
Whilst working alone is ok, at times, the balanced person realises that not all can be done in that way, and at times, we have to allow teamwork to have its day too.
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@PurnaSharma (2562)
• Guwahati, India
10 Jun 23
Alam preferred working alone and was initially frustrated by having a helper, but ultimately showed the limitations of working together. Sometimes, recognizing the strengths and preferences of individuals can lead to better results, whether through solitary work or collaborative teamwork.
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@innertalks (21916)
• Australia
10 Jun 23
Even within teamwork, individuals should not hide their strengths but be themselves as best they can too.
I think that God wants us to be individually alive as ourselves, but to be alive for others within teamwork too. We can have the best of both worlds, (teamwork and individualism) if we work at it.
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@Smiletome (10)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 23
@innertalks Agreed.
For a better collaboration and team result we need each individual unique skill.
Unfortunately, in working environment or life, some of us tend to just do the bare minimum or nothing at all, thinking other can handle it.
I think we need supportive community to make it happen.
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@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
10 Jun 23
Sometimes it's best doing it on our own and sometimes we need teamwork.
I too I have experienced that especially working with people who in a group or team are just cheering squad they just flow without having any input at all and in end they shout we did it and yet they were only slaying around. I just tell them from the start I can't since I have already seen their behavior.
Of course there are people who work best in a team and I appreciate so much
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@innertalks (21916)
• Australia
10 Jun 23
I like to work on my own too.
When I was playing football once, as a lad, I was on a certain side, and the ball came to me, when I was near the opposition's goal. I kicked it through their goal, as I just wanted to kick a goal, and experience that, no matter whose goal it was. I never thought much about the team. I was more playing for myself.
@Laurakemunto (12862)
• Kenya
10 Jun 23
@innertalks I too I work alone alot and it's so fast and avoids confusion all the time .
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@innertalks (21916)
• Australia
10 Jun 23
@Laurakemunto Yes, of course, if l want my car fixed, l need help for that from my mechanic.
But doing most things, l like to do them on my own.
@Shiva49 (26684)
• Singapore
10 Jun 23
I am more comfortable working alone when the job is not clear-cut.
Then I can maneuver better to find the best way to do it.
This brings back memories of a time when I was doing my Chartered Accountancy.
I had gone for an audit at a state-owned finance institution.
The CFO admitted the account was in a mess and bank reconciliation was not done for over a year.
The issue was his staff wanted easy jobs and if he tried to convince someone to do it, the job will not be done properly.
He asked me whether I could chip in. He would pay the fees to my employer as he could not directly compensate me.
I took up the challenge and finished the job faster than he expected.
He had told me he would be able to help me get a good job on my professional qualification.
And he kept his word to set my career on a firm footing.
I was a team player but it was rather a forced effort! Some were a real pain and tried to pull me down/trip me even.
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@innertalks (21916)
• Australia
11 Jun 23
That was a good beginning to your career in accounting. Starting off with a challenge conquered, in good fashion.
Even some sportsmen are not really team players, but more in it just for themselves.
They want to improve their own statistics, or batting averages, and I believe Boycott, used to play like this, and Boycott the aims of his team, for his own targets.
@innertalks (21916)
• Australia
12 Jun 23
@Shiva49 Yes, some people will never be team players.
Perhaps, Boycott would have been better playing chess, golf, or tennis, where you do not have to worry about the state of your team.
@Shiva49 (26684)
• Singapore
11 Jun 23
@innertalks There is a joke about Geoff Boycott.
He was a senior player but was not given the captaincy.
He confronted the selectors for overlooking him.
The selectors had to tell him then:
"It is not that we did not try to make you the captain but we failed due to the fact we could'nt find another ten to play under your captaincy.."
It was told that when he was run out at 99, there was a celebration by his teammates in the dressing room and they congratulated his batting partner!
Gareth Bale, the Welsh footballer, played nine years in the Spanish league for Real Madrid.
It was said he did not make an effort to learn Spanish and communicated through sign language!
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@stapllotik (1933)
• India
22 Jun 23
You can play golf on your own, but you require a team to do goal in a football match.
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@innertalks (21916)
• Australia
23 Jun 23
Yes, tennis is also played one-on-one, mostly, but even in a team, you have some types of people who are not team-minded, and more play for their own reputation, and glory.
Like in cricket, when a batsmen wants to play slowly, and surely, so that then he gets a big score, for his own batting statistics/record to look good, instead of his playing more quickly, if quick runs are required by his team.