Argue NOT to Win, but to Grow

@iammuy (84)
Philippines
June 26, 2023 9:46pm CST
You know, it's easy to get caught up in arguments, especially in this fast-paced world of ours. But let's step back and think about what really matters. Instead of always trying to prove ourselves right, let's shift our focus to something more meaningful—progress. When we engage in healthy debates and discussions, our goal shouldn't be to come out on top, but rather to move forward, to learn, and to grow. It's about opening our minds to different perspectives and embracing the opportunity to broaden our understanding.
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@LadyDuck (472124)
• Switzerland
27 Jun 23
You are right, arguing is neveer good.
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@iammuy (84)
• Philippines
28 Jun 23
Arguing will never be good if we don't know how to manage our thoughts calmly. We get through this process to gain, not to lose something.
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@iammuy (84)
• Philippines
28 Jun 23
@LadyDuck You can also try to consider the chance of having a misunderstanding before ignorance. Sometimes, we may get hurt by something unintended and I experienced it a few times already.
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@LadyDuck (472124)
• Switzerland
28 Jun 23
@iammuy This is true, you are right about that, but usually it's easy to make it clear if it was a misunderstanding.
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@Deepizzaguy (104363)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
27 Jun 23
Excellent advice for me to take heart to learn and not try to win arguments.
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@iammuy (84)
• Philippines
28 Jun 23
Thanks! I hope that you will keep this in mind always in any argument you may get into.
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@Deepizzaguy (104363)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
28 Jun 23
@iammuy I will keep it mind from now on.
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@iammuy (84)
• Philippines
28 Jun 23
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
27 Jun 23
Yes, that should be the spirit of people who are engaged in debates and discussions - not to outsmart each other but to learn from each other.
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@iammuy (84)
• Philippines
28 Jun 23
That's right!
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