Its Weird To Me
@crossbones27 (49703)
Mojave, California
July 10, 2023 2:37am CST
They grew up in such a conservative good family they do not know how to act amongst such freedom. Basically meaning, I want to do this but my family always says stuff like that is bad.
I am here cussing smoking cigarettes and drinking beer and you to afraid to say what you mean in my eyes. Say what you mean. I do not know I think is kind of sad when people cannot be their true selves good or bad. Be bad to learn from your mistakes so you can do good.
When you are so constricted, how do people even learn anything? You will just keep making same mistakes over and over.
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@crossbones27 (49703)
• Mojave, California
20 Jul 23
@thebos Probably so, they need to stop, it helps no one when you lie about important stuff.
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@crossbones27 (49703)
• Mojave, California
20 Jul 23
Thanks my friend, life is hard. I do not know why everyone keeps saying its easy. 
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@thebos (5960)
• Kisumu, Kenya
20 Jul 23
@crossbones27 May be to keep motivating themselves
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@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
10 Jul 23
True. Living in a very conservative family and environment is so restrictive. it's hard to move without being afraid to be judged. No freedom.
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@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
10 Jul 23
@crossbones27 My family is very conservative. But when I went to a university, a very well-known university in this country for its academic excellence and liberalism, I got my freedom. I learned to become more open minded and couldn't care what others think of me.
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@crossbones27 (49703)
• Mojave, California
10 Jul 23
@toniganzon Indeed, and I think people just need balance more than anything. Everything these days is one extreme to the other side. There is a balance and you can be in the middle.
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@crossbones27 (49703)
• Mojave, California
10 Jul 23
I get it ,was born in Missouri a very conservative place but when we left there is like wow how much I did not know how people truly are in general.
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@crossbones27 (49703)
• Mojave, California
20 Jul 23
@AmbiePam That is the best teaching right there anyone could learn. This world is a lot different than how I was raised. I had some of the worse parents too, but not to bad I guess.
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@crossbones27 (49703)
• Mojave, California
10 Jul 23
Indeed but it is so weird how I can just feel people holding it all back I guess. I mean California is place where its so normal to just be you to a point and then someone comes along that is not from here and its like they really not used to being so free. I do not know its hard to explain but I see it I guess.
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@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Jul 23
@crossbones27 Yes that is one subject that is hard to explain. California is a fun place to live there is lots of things to do there.
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@crossbones27 (49703)
• Mojave, California
10 Jul 23
@jstory07 Its easy to get in a lot of trouble here. They say Vegas is the city of sin. Have you seen California? I imagine why so many hate it. I hate it because people so rude and they do not even know why, they just are. .
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
12 Jul 23
Always be you unafraid of others judgement
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@crossbones27 (49703)
• Mojave, California
20 Jul 23
Thanks brother, well said. I am fine, fine in my eyes. I do worry about these other people that I meet,though.
I do worry about these other people that I meet,though.
@crossbones27 (49703)
• Mojave, California
20 Jul 23
The best way to learn is just doing it right or wrong. If you are wrong, it will teach you to be right.
