Dinner Cancelled

@cherigucchi (14876)
Philippines
July 10, 2023 9:25am CST
The wonderful weekend I expected to be happy because my two daughters came home became a nightmare. They arrived home Sunday morning at around 2 in the morning. I waited for them that late because I wanted them to eat the supposed dinner they requested. The came home that late because my eldest had a team dinner at work and as expected did not eat anymore and decided to sleep while my second daughter ate a lot while we shared some stories. Hubby planned a dinner on Sunday but my 2 daughters had to meet their friends and told us that they were just going to follow us. I was doing some ironing of clothes when hubby interrupted me to prepare. But when I already got dressed he decided to cancel the dinner because of his frustration upon knowing that the two young ladies were going to be late. So its a disaster! Photo is mine: The frustrated Dad!
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Jul 23
I'm sorry your weekend didn't turn out well. Your kids are on their own now and have their own plans. Every parent goes through what you did when their kids leave the nest.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
12 Jul 23
That is what I am also trying to understand and making my hubby understand it too but it seems so quite difficult for him to understand that. Maybe soon he will
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
12 Jul 23
@just4him Yes it is.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Jul 23
@cherigucchi It's a process.
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@JudyEv (340286)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Jul 23
This sounds quite typical behaviour for young people. They will have more time for their parents as they get older. Having said that, it's a shame they ruined your weekend,
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
12 Jul 23
I am actually fine with that but its hubby that I am quite so worried about.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
16 Jul 23
@JudyEv Yes of course. He always wants to spend quality time with the kids no matter how they have grown up
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@JudyEv (340286)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Jul 23
@cherigucchi I can understand that some fathers would feel very hurt and upset.
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@marguicha (223152)
• Chile
10 Jul 23
I´m sorry for you. Even the best of daughters don´t think about their parents feelings at times.
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@marguicha (223152)
• Chile
12 Jul 23
@cherigucchi I absolutly know that.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
12 Jul 23
That is true but I will still love and understand them just the same.
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@LadyDuck (471498)
• Switzerland
10 Jul 23
I would also be upset, our daughter should have been more considerate.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
12 Jul 23
That is true but there is nothing I can do but have an understanding heart for them.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
13 Jul 23
@LadyDuck Thanks Ana for the kind words
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@LadyDuck (471498)
• Switzerland
12 Jul 23
@cherigucchi It would be nice should they also have an understanding heart for their parents.
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@DaddyEvil (137261)
• United States
10 Jul 23
I'd cancel, too, if they didn't care enough to be on time.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
12 Jul 23
I understand the frustration. I hope that we can have it next time
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
10 Jul 23
Oh no that's not good, I'm so sorry that you had to cancel your plans that you had.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
12 Jul 23
Yeah, but there maybe a lot of next time
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
12 Jul 23
@cherigucchi yes very true.
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@AmbiePam (92890)
• United States
10 Jul 23
I am sorry you had to cancel what you were looking forward to.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
12 Jul 23
Things like that really happen.
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@snowy22315 (180934)
• United States
10 Jul 23
Your daughters don't seem very considerate., I don't blame you for being upset.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
12 Jul 23
They would realize that sooner or later.
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