Are you smart?

@cacay1 (83577)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
July 10, 2023 10:04pm CST
I am not smartThere were many good opportunities that I missed in my life in love and money. I am extravagant and not serious in love which is why I remain single this time. . Because of my trust in a friend, I didn't mind the robbery that may occur after allowing her to sleep with me at home. She robbed me in the middle of the night and left with my ATM containing P550,000 ( $10,000 USD). I already posted about this happening in the past. I am not smart, maybe dumb, the feeling sucks. I am saving again, and thankful I got a new small business, milk tea selling in the mall. It's done through franchising. Amen to this. I might be on my smart way,lol. Thank you so much for reading, sharing is caring. Are you smart?
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@AmbiePam (93885)
• United States
11 Jul 23
I am told I am smart, and my grades and testing indicate I am smart, but I don’t often feel like it. Your ex friend will get what she deserves, and will find out what it feels like to be betrayed.
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@AnneW21 (2138)
• Wisbech, England
12 Jul 23
what you dish always comes back to you, sometimes quickly other times it takes ages but it does come back
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Aug 23
@AnneW21 , agree with that, hoping it won't happen again in my life.
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@May2k8 (18391)
• Indonesia
11 Jul 23
no I don't, now I plan to invest my wealth that's life.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Jul 23
@May2k8, that is also a good investment investing our lives because if we do not invest our lives well we do not land to good destinations well too.
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@RebeccasFarm (90474)
• Arvada, Colorado
11 Jul 23
I thought I was..but I found out I am dumb.
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• Arvada, Colorado
12 Jul 23
@cacay1 In some things before, yes I was very dumb Erly.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Jul 23
@RebeccasFarm are you serious in saying you're dumb?
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
14 Jul 23
@RebeccasFarm and you are not alone , there is me
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@rakski (126055)
• Philippines
11 Jul 23
no one is perfect. we all have our flaws and imperfection. I am sorry about your friend but I believe blessings will return to those who deserves it and I believe in karma as well
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
11 Jul 23
That's a lot of cash. Never leave anything with any money in it , a vase ATM card or anything in clear view of in your purse when people are over. Even family. You can count on them taking it! Hope you recover from this soon. And best wishes with your new business.
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@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
11 Jul 23
I was intelligent academically but not smart in life. Your story is terrifying getting robbed like that. But you are getting back which is admirable. May I ask what franchise that is? I also want to start a business.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Jul 23
@yoalldudes , thank you, my friend, being smart does not mean you're bright, there are people who do not acquire a degree, but SMART. It is milk-tea franchising. You can find them on the web. The capital is not big only 45,000 and you can start after complying the permits.
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@kaguvkov (1318)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jul 23
I cannot say I am smart but so sad to hear about you and got robbed by your friend. Karma will find its way to your friend.
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@kaguvkov (1318)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Aug 23
@cacay1 that's pretty quick.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 Aug 23
@kaguvkov , she learned that I was coming, and she felt ashamed, so she ended her life that way.
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
5 Aug 23
@kaguvkov , she hanged herself in her cell using her belt.
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@allknowing (137781)
• India
12 Jul 23
My achievements in life tell me that I am smart (lol)
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Jul 23
@allknowing, that could be
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@LadyDuck (472081)
• Switzerland
11 Jul 23
I think that I am smart, but it happens to trust friends and to have bad surprises.
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@LadyDuck (472081)
• Switzerland
12 Jul 23
@cacay1 I am sure that the "virginity issue" has been an excuse to quit her.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Jul 23
@LadyDuck yes, because the guy has a mistress.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Jul 23
@LadyDuck, my nieces in the UK are smart, but my other nieces are not especially the one left by her husband after marriage because of virginity issue
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14 Jul 23
Thanks Erly I am also not smart
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Jul 23
@sathviksouvik that is not true, you are smart Doc.
@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 Aug 23
When people sarcastically ask me why I am not married I would answer " I am too smart, too pretty, and too intelligent to get married. As regards to that friend of yours, was she able to withdraw the money? how did she find out your ATM PIN. I am sorry you encountered that kind of friend. How did you meet her?
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Aug 23
@florelway it happened before the pandemic. My ATM was placed inside its jacket with my password there. I was so careless. She was my classmate in college. I already shared this story 3 years ago here.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Aug 23
@florelway , she slept with me at home on my bed. I rusted her a lot and in the middle of the night, she stole my ATM placed it inside my wallet on my bag, and ran away. She withdraw the money in Manila,the back confirmed it.
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@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Aug 23
@cacay1 That's so unfortunate to have met this kind of people. How did you find out that it was her who got the ATM? Did you try confronting her?
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@Anqaya (3033)
• United States
7 Aug 23
I am not sure. Maybe on everyday basis, I am not. I certainly don't look like streetsmart or real life smart. I do look book smart, but I agree, it does not help that much in life. However, till now, I have been able to get past difficulties and somehow get good opportunities. U may call that luck tho, and I believe in God. So, I say God is helping me haha. I hope u don't feel like that, cz trusting ur friend is not a bad thing. She took advantage of u, and that does not have anything to do with ur smartness. I hope in the future, u get good friends and things like this don't happen again with u.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Aug 23
@Anqaya , I hope I could sill have good friends who won't betray me. It is not easy to find a real friend.
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@Anqaya (3033)
• United States
9 Aug 23
@cacay1 I know. Same here too. But the thing is, I never trust anyone. Which may be a problem in the future as I am only 20 now. And I already have trust issues with everyone haha. But u will find a friend worthy of ur friendship don't worry!
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• Indonesia
30 Jul 23
I'm sad to hear that, you should sue your friend to the police. I wouldn't call myself smart, but some past incidents keep me on my toes now.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 Jul 23
@astutimeliana723 , yes, she hanged herself using her belt at dawn when she learned that I am coming i the morning to see her. She was so afraid .
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• Indonesia
30 Jul 23
@cacay1 Pity. I can't say anything about that.
• Indonesia
30 Jul 23
@cacay1 Oh my God, she killed herself in prison?
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@leighnyork (1880)
11 Jul 23
I really don't know weather I'm smart but, I'll soon find out
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Jul 23
@leighnyork you are smart , of course.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
14 Jul 23
@leighnyork , not et but to start, you need to be wise and never allow anyone to hurt or insult you.
12 Jul 23
@cacay1 let me ask, have you ever come up with ideas
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@jstory07 (139974)
• Roseburg, Oregon
11 Jul 23
That is a lot of money that you loss.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Jul 23
@jstory07, yes, Judy, that was my savings from the first day of my teaching and the commissions I had selling insurances and lots properties.
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@Beestring (14693)
• Hong Kong
11 Jul 23
Each person has strengths and weaknesses. The fact that you are running a milk tea business proves that you are not dumb. Maybe you trust people too easily.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Jul 23
@Beestring I applauded you dear , I am smart on business but not in love and trusting
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