Father - Children relationship

@Shasha_ (1017)
Envigado, Colombia
July 12, 2023 2:40am CST
I still have some mixed feelings. After years having miscommunications with my father, finally I got chances to talk with him again through phone call. I got his information from internet few months ago, and I decided to contact him. I missed him so much, but also still have anger towards him for leaving us. Glad that it sounds like my father still loves his children. He told me that he would meet me and my sister as soon as he could. I am a big girl now, I don't need him to support me, but I just want connections with him. That's it. In my opinion, children look to their fathers to lay down the rules and enforce them. They also look to their fathers to provide a feeling of security, both physical and emotional. How is your relationship with your father?
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@jstory07 (139697)
• Roseburg, Oregon
12 Jul 23
I had a good relationship with my Father he taught me a lot of things.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
12 Jul 23
That's so wonderful. I'm happy for you.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
13 Jul 23
That's what almost all children want to get from their father.
@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
12 Jul 23
I had a very caring father who was always there by my side in my bad times.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
13 Jul 23
I'm so happy to hear that. Your father is just like what every children want.
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@aninditasen (16389)
• Raurkela, India
13 Jul 23
@Shasha_ Yes, but he was very strict when we were young.
@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
16 Jul 23
@aninditasen Sometimes fathers are strict in order to discipline their children.
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@AmbiePam (92714)
• United States
12 Jul 23
I hope you are able to have the relationship with your dad that you want. My relationship with my dad is good. I know he loves me, and he would help me no matter what, but I often feel like he would change me if he could. But he’s a great dad, and I am thankful for him.
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
13 Jul 23
I'm happy for you. I think your dad wanted to change you because he cared so much about you.
@PurnaSharma (2562)
• Guwahati, India
25 Jul 23
My father was very hard-working. He did all possible for us to become what I am today. He used to think that his children would be righteous persons. He never said us to be this or be that, he taught us to become good human beings.
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• Guwahati, India
28 Jul 23
@Shasha_ he was indeed a good father
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
28 Jul 23
I'm proud of a father like yours. He must be really a good father for you.
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• India
12 Jul 23
I am sorry to know about your miscommunications with your father and I hope you can catch up with him some day, take care.
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• India
13 Jul 23
@Shasha_ Take care Shasha
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
13 Jul 23
@Butterfingers Thank you, Raj
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@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
13 Jul 23
Thank you. I'm doing my best.
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