Today I was completely spoiled, and it was so nice.
By Marie Coyle
@MarieCoyle (37939)
July 14, 2023 11:50pm CST
I mentioned that today, I got someone to check in several times on my son and went to my daughter's home, she lives about 10 miles away. She and her husband and I had a day, for sure. We went to a nice store and they bought me 2 pair of pants and 2 shirts! And they fit, they aren't too big or too little. So exciting for me, honestly. They are in the washer right now--I have to wash new clothing before wearing them. Then we all spent about 2 hours at the bookstore, just browsing with our coffee and enjoying ourselves so much. We went to Michael's, as she needed some things from there, and when we finished, I was informed we were going out to eat. I tried to say no, that's not necessary (he is such a good cook, we usually just eat at their home.) But my protest fell on deaf ears.
We went to a steakhouse and had steaks. I had a filet mignon, broccoli, and salad. I hadn't had a steak of any kind in months and months...it was so, so good. We went one more place, plus Target, to get a few items they needed. Luckily, it wasn't busy or crowded. I was treated not only to the new clothes, but when we got back to the house I was gifted a bottle of really nice fragrance, some new Penzey's spices, and a candle that smells wonderful.
I feel like a princess! I tried to protest but that didn't work. They said they felt badly they had not been able to do much since his parents had required several months of their care until recently, and that they wanted to do some things for me.
Truthfully, it was better than Christmas and I feel very special. I truly did need a small break, but I never dreamed it would be this nice of a day.
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@DaddyEvil (137272)
• United States
15 Jul 23
I'm glad you enjoyed your day out with you daughter and SIL. It was very nice of them to treat you to a special day out.
I hope your son was still doing fine when you got home.
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@MarieCoyle (37939)
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15 Jul 23
Honestly, I almost didn't go. He had such a bad week, the ER the other night, and so forth...but he slept most of the day, his friend went twice to check on him and called him once, and he said he was resting--I'm glad because he hadn't slept much lately at all.
Thank you so much.
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@DaddyEvil (137272)
• United States
15 Jul 23
@MarieCoyle You're welcome. I'm glad he was able to sleep/rest most of the day.
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@MarieCoyle (37939)
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15 Jul 23
@DaddyEvil
So was I, as I feel like I have slept in little spurts all week! He said he rested all day.
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@much2say (55673)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Jul 23
@MarieCoyle You take care of family, and they take care of you . . . it warms my heart that you have that .
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@MarieCoyle (37939)
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15 Jul 23
I don't know as I deserve it, but it certainly was so nice and I appreciated it so much. Thank you!
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@MarieCoyle (37939)
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19 Jul 23
@much2say
Just the fact that they care so much has carried me a very long way, thank you.
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@RasmaSandra (80142)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
16 Jul 23
Glad to hear you had such a great day, You have a good daughter. I hope you'll have a relaxing evening and a good Sunday,
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@MarieCoyle (37939)
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16 Jul 23
Not much relaxing going on here today, but no emergencies, so I will take it and be happy about it! Thank you.
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@moffittjc (121621)
• Gainesville, Florida
16 Jul 23
Wow, what a special day for you! That made me happy just reading your discussion. Everyone needs to be pampered every now and then, and I'm glad you got a chance to have one of those magical days. I'm sure that made you smile from ear to ear.
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@moffittjc (121621)
• Gainesville, Florida
17 Jul 23
@MarieCoyle We all need a little “me time” and “play time” to keep our batteries from being fully depleted
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@MarieCoyle (37939)
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17 Jul 23
@moffittjc
Jeff, I don't think I ever realized how important that recharge time can really be, until this long, hard go-around with my son. I keep telling myself he will get better soon...it eases my brain. And there's hope, but it's a hard time for us.
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@MarieCoyle (37939)
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16 Jul 23
It was so good to get away and just...be me. Don't get me wrong, I love all of my children, but I am well in to year number 2 in caring and feeding my son, and sometimes I just get so, so tired. It really helps to get some ''play time'' in once in a while.
Thank you so much!
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@LindaOHio (179689)
• United States
15 Jul 23
What a special day for you. You deserved it. I hope your son is doing well. Enjoy your weekend.
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@LindaOHio (179689)
• United States
16 Jul 23
@MarieCoyle I'm sorry to hear that. You're very welcome.
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@MarieCoyle (37939)
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15 Jul 23
He is not much better, but I am hopeful. Thank you, Linda.
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@AmbiePam (93216)
• United States
15 Jul 23
Oh, I am so glad! That is so great to hear, and it must have thrilled them to be able to do that for you. I also commend you for allowing them to do it; my late mother sometimes got sad when her mother wouldn’t allow her to do something nice.
I know you think you’re just being a mom, but you deserve to be treated like the queen you are, and I am so happy that they were able to do it. You’ve reared wonderful children on your own, and in doing that, you’ve managed to make the world a better place. It is wonderful to see that recognized.
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@MarieCoyle (37939)
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15 Jul 23
They had a rough couple of months lining up full time care for his parents. They really did have their hands full.
I am so thankful to have them all in my life, and your kind words really touched my heart, thank you so much.
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@snowy22315 (181114)
• United States
15 Jul 23
Yay! We all need more of those kinds of days.
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@MarieCoyle (37939)
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15 Jul 23
It certainly made me feel so good, and lifted the spirits as well. Thank you.
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@MarieCoyle (37939)
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15 Jul 23
Judy, they surely did spoil me!! We had the best time!
Thank you so much
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@MarieCoyle (37939)
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15 Jul 23
We were crazy silly for part of the day, I think we all needed to just blow off some steam and have a little fun, as well. Thank you.
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@wolfgirl569 (106874)
• Marion, Ohio
15 Jul 23
Glad you had a great time and was very spoiled for the day
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@MarieCoyle (37939)
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15 Jul 23
I certainly was spoiled! I had a great day, thank you.
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@1creekgirl (41500)
• United States
15 Jul 23
Marie, I am so happy for you! You really needed and deserved such a special day. You are very blessed.
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@MarieCoyle (37939)
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15 Jul 23
I am so thankful for all of them. Thank you, Vicki.
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