10 Year Old More Thoughtful Than 23 Year Old

@BabeSays (8575)
Mauritius
July 15, 2023 2:44pm CST
I don't know what's the exact reason but one of my friends who I considered a best friend has been ignoring me past few days. I notice her attitude change towards me. I don't understand why she is being so mean to me. She either ignores my phone calls or declines them. We used to talk for more than 2 hours every day. I think she is mad because I called her during a time she was out having fun with her friends. She texted me and told me that's how I know. I was thinking what if it would have been an emergency? She just declined my call without even talking to me and ever since she changed and stopped texting and calling me. Tomorrow is my birthday and she didn't even think of me and already made plans with her bestie. Today my niece came and told me let's play Minecraft. She built a home and decorated it and had a birthday cake there for me. She wished me happy birthday and apologized for not being able to come tomorrow. She is just 10 and so thoughtful and on the other hand my friend Vani is completely ignoring me. We've been friends for 2 years and each time it's her birthday I am always present but whenever it's my birthday she always has an excuse. This time it hurts so much. I may forgive her but as from now on I won't include her among those I call friends. I never thought that she would treat me like this. There was a time when her bestie and all her friends ignored and hurt her I was always there for her. And now she has time for everyone except me.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Jul 23
Sorry you’re having a problem. I’d ignore the whole thing. Let her be the next one to call.
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
16 Jul 23
Exactly what I am doing. But I am not giving her another chance to hurt me again. 3 times in a row is enough.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
16 Jul 23
@BabeSays You don’t have to associate with her unless you want to.She doesn’t sound like a best friend.
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@Kosgey (1706)
18 Jul 23
Yes, that is a good idea. If she is the one calling first and try to ask her why she will not show up for the party maybe you can find a good reason why?
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@AmbiePam (92411)
• United States
15 Jul 23
Some people just expect us overlook their actions because they think we'll stick around no matter how they treat us. Your niece puts some adults to shame.
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
15 Jul 23
Indeed. If she thinks I'm going to allow her back in my life again. I will not let this slide.
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@RebeccasFarm (89831)
• Arvada, Colorado
16 Jul 23
Dont bother with her.
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@LadyDuck (471294)
• Switzerland
16 Jul 23
First of all Happy Birthday to you. That person is not your friend, forget about her and move on, she will only cause you pain.
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@Kosgey (1706)
18 Jul 23
It really hearts when you are ignored by your best friend,but more painful when she doesnt show up for your birthday party. Maybe you need to find the reason why she is actjng that way.
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