Short story: Two psychologists "argue" about emotions

The men would meet at a restaurant if one of them was having a birthday
@innertalks (21869)
Australia
July 21, 2023 1:51am CST
The psychologist, Raphael Zerboski, was "arguing" with his fellow psychologist, Andre Helflim, about what the most fundamental of emotions are. Raphael claimed them to be as follows: He said that love was an emotion, as well as were humility, anger, fear, happiness, sadness, disgust, jealousy, contempt, and enjoyment, or joy. Andre, claimed that neither love, nor happiness, were emotions, of our body, but that both of these were actually higher states of our soul, that we could live from. He added that peace, was another state of our soul too, as was joy. Something like humour though, existed both as a soul attribute, as well as an emotional state of our body too. Emotions are sensations, or states that our body can be in, whereas, our soul states, are states, that we can embrace and live from, and they are always more than their just being bodily sensations. Raphael agreed with most of what Andre had said, and then he asked him whether compassion was an emotion, or not. Andre, smiled, as he replied. "Compassion, usually involves love," he said, "and so, real forgiveness, and compassion are also attributes of the higher soul, that we all have as a part of our makeup." Andre then went on to explain further how emotions work for us, in our lives. "A human has base emotions to express itself through as to its feelings, and how it responds to happenings in its life, much the same as any animal does too, and yet a human can respond from higher refined emotions, that link it to its souls attributes too, in that a soul has higher levels of understanding, and so the emotions, when felt, must not be given readily into, but must be passed past the intellect, and the soul, to check if oneself is responding appropriately, and not instinctively, from an animal level of that emotion, such as anger, lust, or envy." After chewing the fat for a bit longer, the two psychologists enjoyed a cup of coffee, and a piece of fruitcake, cooked for them by Andre's wife, and then parted company until the next discussion might come up. They took turns to meet up with each other every Friday night, in each other's houses, for a healthy discussion over all things psychological. At other times, they would go out to a restaurant, instead, if one of them was having a birthday, in that week. Rather than argue, they usually helped each other to understand each other's points of discussion, and to enjoy each other's company, in such healthy discussion, too. Photo Credit: The photo used in this article was sourced from the free media site, pixabay.com The men would meet at a restaurant if one of them was having a birthday.
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@crossbones27 (49344)
• Mojave, California
21 Jul 23
Its unreal these days. Amazing how we have to show stories like this to show how true adults behave,
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@innertalks (21869)
• Australia
21 Jul 23
Yes, these days, people seem to rant, rage, and rave, at each other, and there is not much healthy discussion going on at all, these days.
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@just4him (317004)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Jul 23
The greatest emotion is love. From it all others proceed. All the emotions discussed make up a person and how he or she responds to one another.
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@just4him (317004)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Jul 23
@innertalks I totally agree.
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@innertalks (21869)
• Australia
21 Jul 23
Yes, I think that love is the mother of all the other emotions, and in some ways, love's energy is behind all of creation, because God is love, and love is God. Love is more than it just being an emotion, as it equates to being God too.
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@snowy22315 (179715)
• United States
21 Jul 23
Proof we don't have to agree about everything as long as we are respectable of differences.
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@innertalks (21869)
• Australia
22 Jul 23
Yes, we can learn off of others, when we have not stonewalled ourselves away, just walled off inside of our own ideas, and opinions.
@jstory07 (139342)
• Roseburg, Oregon
21 Jul 23
Love involves all sorts of emotions at once. You can be up one minute and down the next all because of love.
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@innertalks (21869)
• Australia
21 Jul 23
Yes, I think that love is the mother of all emotions, as if we can include a little bit of love in all of our other emotions too, all of our emotional feelings will be better off for that too.
@Shiva49 (26641)
• Singapore
21 Jul 23
That is a healthy tête-à-tête that enriches their knowledge and understanding of emotions at various levels and their difference from love and compassion. A human is endowed with a certain level of higher consciousness and it is our bounden duty to step up and live a life that is worthy of such dispensation from our creator. Emotions can be fickle and vary according to the state of our minds. When we stick with soul consciousness, we rise above the fissiparous tendencies that set us at loggerheads. But it looks to be far-fetched now as we allow our minds to dictate the terms of our lifestyle and outlook.
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@innertalks (21869)
• Australia
22 Jul 23
Yes, living from the lofty heights of our soul, allow us to not be drowned/overcome/driven by our emotions, which can be refined by our soul, and our higher consciousness to be more effectively used by us in our lives.
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@innertalks (21869)
• Australia
23 Jul 23
@Shiva49 Nicely phrased, siva. Everything should be vetted by our souls, before we speak out our thoughts, react emotionally, or take action, not based on love, we should run it all passed our soul first.
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@Shiva49 (26641)
• Singapore
22 Jul 23
@innertalks Yes when the soul is at play it sieves our thoughts and channels them in the right direction.
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• Tashkent, Uzbekistan
31 Jul 23
soul and emotion are two different things, the soul is the factor that keeps a person alive, and the emotion appears over time, and love is an emotion, a person can live with the one he loves and quarrel with him, and immediately this emotion can turn into hatred, if the one he loves betrays, then the emotion appears as long as a person lives, he always lives because the soul is alive, mercy is also considered as a feeling, because it is possible not to have mercy instead of showing mercy, so this feeling, and the soul, does not deny the existence of the creator, and the soul instills this feeling into the human mind, then this is the proof becomes an undemanding reality.
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@innertalks (21869)
• Australia
1 Aug 23
There are two levels of emotions though, the higher soul emotions, and the lower bodily, animalistic type natural human emotions. God, himself has emotions, as does our soul, created like God, in his image. Our role here is to move from our unrefined raw animal emotions to living from our more refined soul emotions, that can drive and energise us in the right way. God gets sad, and loves, and can feel anger too, according to the Christian Bible. Our soul is a vehicle, something that exhibits and feels the higher emotions, which act as its energy, just as our lower emotions fuel our body with energy too, as in the flight, or fight response, that energies us in an emergency. Our lower emotions, we are born with, as we can see even a baby getting angry, or sad, from these types of unrefined reactions too.