Butter, jam and cream or just two out of three

@JudyEv (340649)
Rockingham, Australia
July 21, 2023 7:42pm CST
LoL’s post (@JimBo452020) about home-made raspberry jam on bread and butter made me think of this. I grew up on a farm and my husband grew up in the nearby country town. Both our families weren’t rich by any means. We had milking cows and always had as much cream and milk as we wanted. But when we wanted jam and cream (on bread) we weren’t allowed to have butter, jam and cream. It was either butter and jam, or jam and cream. We were told you didn’t need butter if you were having cream and vice versa. Vince always has butter, jam and cream. So would you have butter, jam and cream on your bread, or just jam and cream? Providing you like it of course. The photo is mine of something slightly better than jam and cream.
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@much2say (55672)
• Los Angeles, California
22 Jul 23
Boy I feel so spoiled in that I could choose to have any or all at anytime. Would the cream be a whipped cream? I think that was the only cream I knew of and had growing up . . . we most only on used it on special desserts.
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@much2say (55672)
• Los Angeles, California
24 Jul 23
@JudyEv I do know the scalded cream, but I think we only did that for certain recipes - no wait, we used the scalded milk and threw out the cream .
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@JudyEv (340649)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Jul 23
We produced our own cream so sometimes it was thin and at other times quite thick. We also had scalded cream. You sat a big flat container of milk on top of the stove and very slowly heated it. The cream would all collect on the top.
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@JudyEv (340649)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Jul 23
@much2say Really??? Isn't that interesting? I remember we couldn't give separated or scalded milk to pet lambs. It would upset them very badly.
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@DaddyEvil (137275)
• United States
22 Jul 23
We never had cream on bread. We had butter or jam on bread. Mom wouldn't have cared if we had butter and jam, though.
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@DaddyEvil (137275)
• United States
22 Jul 23
@JudyEv I started to say something funny... but maybe just funny to me so I'll stay quiet.
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@JudyEv (340649)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Jul 23
@DaddyEvil Come on now. You can't do that! Maybe it's funny to me too or maybe I'll just have to pull a very funny face at you. So out with it.
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@JudyEv (340649)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Jul 23
As I said to Judy, I wonder if it's an Australian thing.
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@rebelann (112903)
• El Paso, Texas
22 Jul 23
I love butter so I'd go with simply bread and butter, I wouldn't need jam because it's usually too sweet for me.
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@JudyEv (340649)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Jul 23
Bread and butter is great if it's nice bread. The baguettes in France really spoilt me. You can't get anything here that comes close to their baguettes.
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@rebelann (112903)
• El Paso, Texas
22 Jul 23
I can imagine. Mom had the same experience after dad was stationed back to the US .... I was 9 so all I remember is we couldn't find the chocolates I liked.
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@FourWalls (68405)
• United States
22 Jul 23
To me, cream filling would be a dessert type addition, so I’d take butter and jam (or jelly) and save the cream for cake.
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@JudyEv (340649)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Jul 23
We're having lunch with friends next week and I have in mind to take a cream-filled sponge. I bet I forget to take a photo of it. lol
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@wolfgirl569 (106963)
• Marion, Ohio
22 Jul 23
It would depend on my mood. But all 3' could be real good
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@wolfgirl569 (106963)
• Marion, Ohio
22 Jul 23
@JudyEv I can understand your parents feeling like that. Plus all 3 would be rich
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@JudyEv (340649)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Jul 23
@wolfgirl569 I think that thought came into the equation too.
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@JudyEv (340649)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Jul 23
Isn't it funny how we all have different likes and dislikes? I was taught having all three was extravagant. lol
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@dgobucks226 (35643)
22 Jul 23
I've never had cream on bread, but if it tastes anything like the whipped cream we buy in stores, I imagine it might be really good. I'm a butter and jam on bread person but would be game to try cream.
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@JudyEv (340649)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Jul 23
I can't believe that so many never have cream on bread. It must be an Australian thing.
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@JudyEv (340649)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Jul 23
@dgobucks226 The custom must have come from somewhere surely. Some of my ancestors were German. Maybe it's a German thing.
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@dgobucks226 (35643)
27 Jul 23
@JudyEv Yes, I think so. Wonder if the British enjoy cream on bread?
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@GardenGerty (160767)
• United States
22 Jul 23
I have never had cream on my bread, so it would be butter and jam. Granny made the best!!
@ptrikha_2 (47004)
• India
23 Jul 23
I apply just Jam and occasionally Butter and Jam. We rarely use Cream, except for making a few dishes. Apart from this, I sometimes have Bread with Butter and Bread with Cheese Slice. And well a few days back, I tried Bread with Avocado for the first time. But hey, I missed writing a post on that !!
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@ptrikha_2 (47004)
• India
23 Jul 23
@JudyEv Well, I am working on a (kind of) series of some more discussions so may be after that !
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@JudyEv (340649)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Jul 23
It's probably not too late to write about it.
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@May2k8 (18379)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 23
this is not the right time for me, I'm in the mood for lunch.
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@JudyEv (340649)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Jul 23
When I read about food here, I always get hungry.
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@allknowing (136997)
• India
22 Jul 23
Never had cream and now it is just choco peanut spread or only jam.
@jstory07 (139845)
• Roseburg, Oregon
22 Jul 23
I have peanut butter and jelly on my bread. Or just butter or just jam. Never cream.
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@JudyEv (340649)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Jul 23
Others have said they never have cream. I wonder if it's an Australian thing.
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@LeaPea2417 (37359)
• Toccoa, Georgia
22 Jul 23
I like butter and jam on bread.
@RasmaSandra (80177)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23 Jul 23
That looks so delicious, I could do without the butter just jam and cream,
@Beestring (14591)
• Hong Kong
22 Jul 23
I like butter and jam on bread. Never had cream on bread.
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@JudyEv (340649)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Jul 23
Maybe it's an Australian thing to have cream on bread, with something else of course.
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@snowy22315 (181188)
• United States
22 Jul 23
butter and jam, not generally cream cheese.
@RebeccasFarm (90068)
• Arvada, Colorado
22 Jul 23
Thanks for making me mouth water now Judy.
@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
22 Jul 23
I would have butter and jam or peanut butter and jam.
@LadyDuck (471740)
• Switzerland
22 Jul 23
NO, butter AND cream makes no sense, one of the two is rich enough in fat, two is too much. I like what I see in this photo.
@just4him (317122)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Jul 23
I've never had cream on bread. If I have jam on bread, I don't put butter on it too. Only jam.
@LindaOHio (179787)
• United States
22 Jul 23
Just butter and jam for me. Enjoy your day.