I am down and depressed

@ajithlal (14716)
India
July 27, 2023 9:19am CST
I am depressed and feeling sad and lonely. I need some good hugs and good friends. I think myLot might be a good place to get some hugs and to have someone talk to me and make friends and remove depression. In real life most people are selfish and they make friendships when they need and throw us away when they do not need. Hello anyone out there who can help to remove the depression and provide hugs and happiness. Sometimes it feels like pain in heart and tears in eyes. I do not know how to remove this pain.
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@LadyDuck (471547)
• Switzerland
27 Jul 23
I am sorry you feel down. If you know the reason that is causing you his pain and depression it is a first step to try to move on and be happy.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
27 Jul 23
I do not have children and that is the main reason. Sometimes I go to park and beaches to see the children play there. It is kind of feeling empty knowing no body there after your generation.
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@LadyDuck (471547)
• Switzerland
27 Jul 23
@ajithlal I am very sorry. Are you married? I am married and we have no children and it was a personal choice.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
27 Jul 23
@LadyDuck I am married and is now 44 years old. We tried treatment for lots of years with no luck.
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@AmbiePam (92781)
• United States
27 Jul 23
My nieces, and nephew
I am so sorry you are experiencing such heartache right now. As I was reading some of the other responses, I saw you mention you are sad because you want children, and you don’t have any yet. I understand wanting biological children, but have you ever considered adoption? My sister could not have children with her husband, and they ended up adopting three children. We love them like they are blood relations, and I am so proud to be their aunt. They are smart, funny, well behaved, and precious. I’ll include a photo of them in their Halloween costumes so you can see them. Please feel free to drop by, and share your feelings whenever you are feeling down and depressed. You are not alone, and people care; I care. You deserve good friends, and I hope you find that here.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
28 Jul 23
Adoption is not easy process and also the cost is high and you have to wait very long in our place.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
28 Jul 23
I also hope I can find some friends whom I can talk to because in real life everyone is busy and they are free only when they need you.
@AmbiePam (92781)
• United States
28 Jul 23
@ajithlal The cost of treatment must have been very high, and added a lot of stress too I imagine. Here, if you adopt within foster care it is cheaper than adopting from another country (which was too expensive for my sister). Of course, I don't know how that works for other countries. I do hope you find friends. There are unselfish friends out there, but it can be very hard to find them.
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@choijungeun (2631)
• Hangzhou, China
27 Jul 23
I don't know how to ease off your pain,i wish you can get better by listening the gentle music,watching the comedies or just having a deep sleep.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
27 Jul 23
I will try that.
@eLdav1s (67)
• Nigeria
28 Jul 23
I do not really know exactly what it is you are going through, but we are always here for you no matter what. Sometimes life hits us hard, but it does not mean it is the end of our story, i believe you are strong and have what it takes to overcome whatever it is that is breaking you at the moment, just trust yourself and the process and stay strong. Strong times don't last but strong people do.
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