It's Not Easy

@BabeSays (8575)
Mauritius
July 28, 2023 7:05am CST
Imagine buying a gift for someone special. Someone you love so much. Then the person texts you that they are coming over. You are eagerly waiting to give them the gift and see that smile on their face. Then comes the moment they are here but they don't visit you and leave without even saying goodbye. I feel broken from inside having a hard time understanding this world. To ease my pain I throw away the gift because it reminds me of the person. It's not easy to understand people and what's going on in their minds. Friends, family, and relatives...are getting harder to understand.
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10 responses
@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
28 Jul 23
I am sorry, we will never understand people. Shame to throw the gift, you could have offered to someone you like.
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
28 Jul 23
It was a custom gift. I can't give it to anyone else. I don't know anyone else with the same name.
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@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
28 Jul 23
@BabeSays I see, if it was a custom gift you were right to throw.
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@AmbiePam (92826)
• United States
28 Jul 23
I really hope things change for you; it just isn’t right. I just wish I could make it better for you.
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29 Jul 23
me too I man it's never easy
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Jul 23
I'm so sorry that it happened to you.
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
30 Jul 23
Thank you Val
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
28 Jul 23
Maybe they have important matters to attend to. Better we extend our understanding...
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
28 Jul 23
I didn't post in detail since it hurts. So not everyone will get it. It's understandable.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
28 Jul 23
@BabeSays I undertand...
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29 Jul 23
I feel sorry for you these peaple do not deserve your time and sadness
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
30 Jul 23
Thank you Arune. Very few people understand.
• Tashkent, Uzbekistan
31 Jul 23
Don't be discouraged, you did the right thing by throwing away the cold one, I will explain to you with an example, for example, a normal 1 liter of water costs 1 dollar in the market, 1.5 dollars in the store, 2 dollars in the supermarket, and 5 dollars in the airport, so you also value yourself and be among those who value you, and the gifts and blessings will continue.
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
1 Aug 23
That's really sweet of you. Thank you, I appreciate your message.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
28 Jul 23
I don't understand either. Why would anyone tell you they are coming over and then not visit you even though they are there? I am very confused as well.
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
28 Jul 23
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28 Jul 23
I wish they can understand you too
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@BabeSays (8575)
• Mauritius
30 Jul 23
I wish so. Sometimes I feel so bad that I am always good at understand others and make sure not to hurt their feelings but it doesn't take them a second to hurt my feelings.
@ibncim (1)
29 Jul 23
I understand how you feel. Perhaps the person had their reasons for not stopping by and leaving without saying goodbye. Stay strong even though it's challenging to understand others. Relationships and communication can be complex at times, but don't let it dampen your spirits. Stay open to connecting with people who truly care about you. I hope you find peace and tranquility in dealing with this situation.
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• Indonesia
1 Aug 23
Sorry. It hurts. but we can't force someone to stay. think positive, if she is not the best for you