Problems in marriage

@cacay1 (83505)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
August 24, 2023 12:32am CST
Though I am single but for sure what I observed and heard are what most married people are struggling like jealousy and misunderstanding. It is not only that, if there is no birth control, most probably they would create more babies and the other scenario is when either the husband or wife a sterile. . There are a few lovers who impregnate their girlfriends before marriage to make sure the girl is not barren . Lastly, it could be a wrong love or a wrong marriage. What else could you add as the problems in marriage? Thank you for reading, sharing is caring.
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• India
24 Aug 23
In India Girls prefer to get married to a person who is getting a big salary so they all have materialistic thinking
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 23
@Butterfingers, nah despite absence of love?
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@LadyDuck (471573)
• Switzerland
24 Aug 23
Not having common interests is one of the major problems.
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@LadyDuck (471573)
• Switzerland
24 Aug 23
@cacay1 After a while the couple get bored and they try to find other interests
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 23
@LadyDuck yes try to find a mistress
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 23
@Laurakemunto, agree with you, marriage will surely fall if there's no mutual interest and understanding.
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@AmbiePam (92998)
• United States
24 Aug 23
I think different moral beliefs like religion or politics is a big issue, as well as going into a marriage thinking it is the other person’s responsibility to make you happy. That’s a really bad expectation. I am looking for a husband to compliment my life, not complete it.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Aug 23
@AmbiePam, very well said my friend, it's not easy to find a true love with love chemistry, right match.
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@allknowing (136778)
• India
25 Aug 23
Not being able to adjust to each other
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@allknowing (136778)
• India
25 Aug 23
@cacay1 Those are isolated cases where adjustment is just not possible
@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Aug 23
@allknowing agree, it's not easy to keep on adjusting
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@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
24 Aug 23
In every relationship, there will always be problems. Heck, even if I am just acquaintances with someone, we will also have problems. That's what happens when you have multiple people who can think and feel on their own. I am married. My husband and I have been together for 9 years, but married for 5 years. For one thing, since I am from the Philippines, there is cultural differences. But we worked together to address that and have accepted each other's upbringing. Also, we have different personalities: I am a neat freak and he is steps away from being a slob. I am a homebody, and he is an outdoorsman. I am an introvert, and he is very charming and outgoing. I think ultimately, for the right person, differences and problems can be ironed out. But I think once it has become a constant struggle, then maybe it's not meant to be afterall.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Aug 23
@Raine38, I'm so touched with your story. Cultural differences is a problem and having differed in personality types. It is not easy to adjust and embrace a new culture. But I'm glad you were able to withstand and succeeded.
@jstory07 (139816)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Aug 23
To marry someone you do not love just to get married.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 23
@jstory07 agree with that, and marriage will be like hell.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
24 Aug 23
This is a very good list. It's good to have good chemistry. Of course money problems is high on the.list.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Aug 23
@db20747 correct no money no honey and love may fly away
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
25 Aug 23
@dya80dya (36660)
24 Aug 23
A different religion can cause lots of problems.
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@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 23
@dya80dya, yay yes that's right but my cousin is still in s good marriage with her husband religion different from hers. It really depends.