A sad anniversary

@NJChicaa (120122)
United States
August 29, 2023 4:06pm CST
4 years ago today my divorce was finalized. I can't believe it has been so long. It was not my choice but the whole process went as amicably and smoothly as possible. No one screwed the other over either during our marriage or during the separation process. It was like the most friendly divorce in the world. LoL always says he doesn't understand why we got divorced and I tend to agree with him. We are still on good terms and we still love each other. I know if I need help with something that he would be here as soon as he could. I still get emotional thinking about it. Like there are tears leaking out of my eyes as I type this. I don't know if I'll ever get past it. I've loved him for 20 years which is about half of my life. I'm just glad that we can still talk and laugh together when he visits. That connection between us is still there.
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@AmbiePam (93898)
• United States
30 Aug 23
I hope someday, if it would make you happier, that he realizes his colossal mistake, and you two work your way back to each other with the result of getting remarried. I have seen it happen in my own family, and it would be so great if it happened for you.
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@NJChicaa (120122)
• United States
30 Aug 23
Thanks. I hope so too.
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@kaylachan (71773)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
29 Aug 23
Then why did you do it? Why did you split? Or, is that to personal?
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@NJChicaa (120122)
• United States
29 Aug 23
He was having a midlife crisis I think. I wasn't going to fight someone who didn't want to be with me. I took freaking everything when I moved out thhough.
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@RasmaSandra (80748)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
29 Aug 23
I am sorry you had to go through all that just to bring you additional pain. I am glad you can be friends with him and things change as life goes on perhaps a new wave of love might wash over you both.
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@Deepizzaguy (104160)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
29 Aug 23
It is nice to know that despite your divorce being finalized four years ago today, you remain friends with your former partner.
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@LindaOHio (181642)
• United States
30 Aug 23
That's very sad; but I wish you could move on. I know you've heard that 1,000 times before; but I only wish the best for you.
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• Philippines
30 Aug 23
There's an old song by Taylor Dayne, but it's what comes to mind in your situation - Love will lead you back (Sorry if it's too sappy).
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