A child's love for his parents is the deepest

@Ada2021 (105)
China
September 4, 2023 11:56pm CST
My husband has been on a business trip for a long time, but every time he calls the video to us, my son is not willing to answer, nor is he willing to talk with him. But yesterday I found that my son secretly wrote a letter to his father which in his schoolbag, saying, Dad, I miss you, I miss you so much, I felt like crying at that time, I try to ask my son why he didn't tell his father these word directly. He said that he was shyness. I really wish my husband could spend more time with his kids at home. The children love us by their whole heart.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
5 Sep 23
We did not spend much time with my father when kids, we were also shy talking to him. I hope your husband will read the letter.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
6 Sep 23
@Ada2021 You are right, my husband was very attached to my family.
Ada2028
@Ada2021 (105)
• China
6 Sep 23
I have very close relationship with my father, but my husband is the same situation as you, they always judge each other sometimes, they also love each other. I wish my son could be close, and learn how to experss the love.
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Ada2028
@Ada2021 (105)
• China
6 Sep 23
@LadyDuck I am sorry to hear that. Anyway, your father is worthy of love, you are worthy of love, your husband loves your father, also shows that he loves you, there is no love for no reason in the world.
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OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (89873)
• Arvada, Colorado
6 Sep 23
Yes it surely is my friend. I wish your husband could do as you wish.
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OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (89873)
• Arvada, Colorado
6 Sep 23
@Ada2021 He is a blessed loving boy to his Father..how very precious
Ada2028
@Ada2021 (105)
• China
7 Sep 23
@RebeccasFarm Yes, this is the true love in our life.
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Ada2028
@Ada2021 (105)
• China
6 Sep 23
With my encouragement, my son said to his father yesterday, "Dad, I love you very much, but I'm just a little shy."
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Amber
@AmbiePam (92856)
• United States
5 Sep 23
Oh, that is sweet. Maybe the note will move him to carve out a little more time to spend with his children after all.
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Ada2028
@Ada2021 (105)
• China
6 Sep 23
Yes, my husband call us yesterday night, I wish he could realize the important thing is our kids, rather than only the job.
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Ebenz
@writerjo (2540)
• India
5 Sep 23
@Ada2021 yes we have to spend little time with our kids They need & expect much from their parents Kids are not that much matured & can't understand the parent's position We have to tell them politely with love They will understand Have a Good Day Happy Parenting
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Ada2028
@Ada2021 (105)
• China
6 Sep 23
Yes, I also try my best together with them after work, I tell them I love them every day. I think it needs to improve myself to be one better mother, sometimes, I always take attention on their study, I always wish they could deduct as I hope. I needs to accept them to do not that well in the most of time.
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Ebenz
@writerjo (2540)
• India
6 Sep 23
@Ada2021 Glad to hear from you Have a good day
Mildred Tabitha
@mildredtabitha (16126)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 Sep 23
You are right. Children love their parents but they can't express because they are shy.
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Ada2028
@Ada2021 (105)
• China
6 Sep 23
Yes, they are shy, so the don't want to talk or use strange voice.
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Danielah
@Sayisii (116)
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5 Sep 23
I hope he spends more time with the kids maybe when he spends more time them the shyness might go away and they will be free and need not write notes and tell him directly
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Ada2028
@Ada2021 (105)
• China
6 Sep 23
Yes, I totally agree with you, with my encouragement, my son said to his father yesterday, "Dad, I love you very much, but I'm just a little shy." after that, they are happy. I think this is the first step.
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Danielah
@Sayisii (116)
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6 Sep 23
@Ada2021 Wow! That's amazing. That's a good first big step
Judy Story
@jstory07 (139756)
• Roseburg, Oregon
5 Sep 23
I hope your husband will spend more time with his son.
Ada2028
@Ada2021 (105)
• China
6 Sep 23
Many thanks. Parent give the same love to the kids, they could receive the great strength for all his life. I also wish he could realize it as soon as possible, the work is important, but the kids in more important than that.
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solxee
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
6 Sep 23
Oh my, that would break my heart