A nice visit

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My ex was here for about 2 hours. He was good about just letting me ramble and probably tell him things about the past couple of days that I had already told him. It was good to have someone other than the same family members I've been with for 3 days to remember things with. We also did a lot of just random catching up which also was helpful because I don't want to constantly talk about it. Eventually I said "look I am not going to ask and you don't have to tell me, but the visitation is Sunday at 1-4 and the memorial is at 4 if you want to come." He asked if he was welcome and I said "of course!" He asked if I sure and I said "100%". I told him that my cousin and aunt had both asked about him and that my cousin specifically said she would welcome his presence. I told him that my whole family still loves him. He said he was most concerned about my sister because that biotch can hold a grudge like no one's business. I told him that if for no other reason that she would be happy that he was there simply because she knows that it will be helpful for me. So he said that he would miss the Eagles game to be there. Now I'm back to going through pictures. I think we are going to have way too many but that's a good problem to have. Tomorrow I am going to start working on my speech and I need to find something to wear. I don't want to buy a dress but I am not against wearing a skirt and sandals that are not flip flops. I know even if I rolled up in my usual khakis and flips my dad wouldn't be offended but I'd never hear the end of it from my mother.