Some Mixed News To Report

@CarolDM (203422)
Nashville, Tennessee
September 11, 2023 11:47am CST
Has been awhile since I was here. Brendel is still around but moving slow these days. I have to help her up on chairs now. She is eating most all of her food, with her appetite stimulant. Still sleeping most nights until 4:am or 5:am. And still using the litter box. Those are the positive. She also turns 14 in a couple of weeks. I can tell she is slowing down. Every day. But I will keep waiting for signs of acute distress before we make that final trip to the vet. This stress has caused a few issues with myself. But I am coping. Diagnosed with costochondritis (sometimes called chest wall pain) recently. Thought I was having a heart attack at first. Have no idea the cause, as I had no injury. The doctor said often times they do not know the origin. I have severe rib pain under the breastbone, on both sides, neck and shoulder pain. Aleve and ice are my friends for now. My doctor said it could take months to improve. I explained the stress I am going through with Brendel. She said although stress would not be the cause, it definitely aggravates the symptoms. Trying to enjoy the hummingbirds and a few butterflies. This too shall pass. Words that get me through on many days. I will catch up on your posts as time allows. I hope you are all doing well.
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@rebelann (112979)
• El Paso, Texas
11 Sep 23
It's never easy when we're about to say goodbye to one of our beloved furbabies.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 23
I feel like I am on the edge every day. Trying my best to just sit back and enjoy having her with me. So difficult, the not knowing.
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@rebelann (112979)
• El Paso, Texas
11 Sep 23
Yes it is.
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@Gilljane (2902)
• Sutton, England
11 Sep 23
I was very concerned when I read your previous post. This will pass has also helped me
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 23
I have been so very worried about my cat, my baby. Have not felt like being online.
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@snowy22315 (182195)
• United States
11 Sep 23
I think she will let you know when it is time to go. Please take care of yourself.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 23
I am pretty sure she will, and each day I wonder if today will be the day. Thank you.
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@LeaPea2417 (37381)
• Toccoa, Georgia
11 Sep 23
Prayers about your health ailments.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 23
Thank you so much.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50524)
• United States
11 Sep 23
I am really happy to see you here. I’m sorry to hear of your chest pain. I know the anguish you are going through with Brendel.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50524)
• United States
11 Sep 23
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 23
Thank you Marie. Has been some difficult days but we are all surviving.
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@Dena91 (16686)
• United States
11 Sep 23
You know you're in my prayers. I am glad Brendel is doing as well as she is. Praying your pain subsides.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 23
My sweet friend, Dena. Your thoughts, prayers and support have meant more than you will ever know. I cannot thank you enough.
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@shaggin (72252)
• United States
12 Sep 23
Your condition sounds terrible. I can imagine the stress with your cat making it worse. Awful it can take so long to go away.
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@shaggin (72252)
• United States
12 Sep 23
@CarolDM oh my gosh wow that is such a long recovery. I hope you don’t have to go through it for that long.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
Very painful and it takes my breath away. Hoping it will ease up soon. The radiologist that did my chest X-ray had it and he said it took him almost one year to recover. And no idea how he got his either.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
@shaggin I know, and my neck and shoulders are painful as well. The doctor said your entire thorax are connected. When one hurts, it can cause inflammation in the others. But I have had worse days and I know others are going through far worse. This too shall pass.
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@much2say (56053)
• Los Angeles, California
13 Sep 23
Always good to see you. I know you're doing your very best for Brendel and have a lot on your plate, but please, please take care of yourself too. Keeping positive thoughts for you all . . . sending vibes of great strength, comfort, and health .
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@much2say (56053)
• Los Angeles, California
19 Sep 23
@CarolDM Comfy is good . . . she is soaking in the good life .
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Sep 23
@much2say Yes that is my goal every single day.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Sep 23
Thanks so much my friend. She seems comfy at the time. Asleep in the sunshine.
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
11 Sep 23
I hope you get better soon.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 23
Thanks, I worry more about Brendel. Hope all is well with you.
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
12 Sep 23
Poor Brendel, she seems comfortable, even if she is slowing down. I am sure she is not in pain. I am sorry for your health condition, that must be painful and surely scary before you was told what this is. I hope you are not too much in pain and you can relief your stress a little. Take care.
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
12 Sep 23
@CarolDM Every time we feel a sharp pain in our chest area it is normal to fear that it's our heart. I am glad that Aleve helps and the ice also. I am well thank you and my husband not too bad.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
She does seem comfortable most of the time. I will eventually get over these pains I hope. In a few weeks I am hoping. I was afraid at first it was my heart. What a relief. I am better. Sharp pains every few days but the Aleve helps as well as the ice. Thanks Anna. Good to see you. Hope things are well with you.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
@LadyDuck It was like a pain I have never had. Still the same in my ribs. Hoping for better days eventually.
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@sallypup (61635)
• Centralia, Washington
18 Sep 23
Hugs and more hugs. I'm sorry you are going through this.
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@sallypup (61635)
• Centralia, Washington
18 Sep 23
@CarolDM Yes and you will keep your promise. The Autumn and winter when our dearest Leah pup was working through a nasty cancer, I found a sweet hospice group on Facebook. Wonderful people that were there for me as I hammered out my anguish. How to let go of an eight year old vigorous gal that had an encroaching head cancer? HOW? And in the Spring we did. God go with you and all His angels.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Sep 23
@sallypup Such kind and reassuring words. Needed desperately. Being around those who have gone through what you are experiencing is always a win-win. I found a great support group online after losing Dustin. Only parents who have lost a child truly understand. Thank you so very much.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Sep 23
The hugs are very welcomed. Thanks so much. It is such a difficult time. But I promised her I would take care of her.
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@TheHorse (220266)
• Walnut Creek, California
12 Sep 23
I hope you and your kitty feel better soon. But I realize the grieving process for your kitty has already started, and that IS stress inducing.
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@TheHorse (220266)
• Walnut Creek, California
12 Sep 23
@CarolDM Sending comfortable thoughts.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
@TheHorse Very kind of you and much appreciated.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
Thank you. Just trying to keep her comfortable. The grieving has started as I know she will not come back from this. Reminds me of the final week of my Dad’s life was on Hospice. I held his hand. All I could do.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
11 Sep 23
It’s good to hear from you and Brendel. Sorry you have pain. Wish there was some treatment for it, pain isn’t easy to live with. My thoughts are with you.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
11 Sep 23
@CarolDM You take it easy and take care of yourself. Wishing you the best. Keep us informed when you feel up to it.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 23
@RubyHawk Thanks again. I will do just that.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 23
Thank you. Has been a draining time lately. Have not felt like being online. The Aleve and ice are helping me and not doing any major housework helps too. Appreciate your thoughts.
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@MarieCoyle (38717)
12 Sep 23
I am sorry you are feeling so terrible. It's hard to live with pain. It sounds as if you are doing all the right things for yourself and for Brendel. This is such a hard time for you, I'm really sorry.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
Thank you Marie. Your words mean more than you know. Things will get better eventually. I know others are far worse off.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Sep 23
@MarieCoyle Thanks for the kind words Marie. I am blessed each day she is with me.
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@MarieCoyle (38717)
13 Sep 23
@CarolDM Sometimes, on a really hard day, we exist on the hope that it will get better eventually, as you said. Unfortunately, things often seem to go in cycles at times. Be kind to yourself, and give Brendel and Dude a pat from me.
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@allknowing (137791)
• India
12 Sep 23
I think that pain is more due to the stress you are going through I have noticed that about me.
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@allknowing (137791)
• India
12 Sep 23
@CarolDM I can imagine how uncomfortable you are and hopefully with time you will feel better. Take care. +
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
Inflammation is the cause of the condition and stress aggravates it of course.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
@allknowing Better days will return eventually. Thanks again for your support.
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@kaylachan (71786)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
12 Sep 23
Enjoy her while she's here. Hopefully she'll cross rainbow bridge on her own like Precious did. She'll let you know if she wants you to help her over.
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@kaylachan (71786)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
12 Sep 23
@CarolDM You're quite welcome.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
I am doing that every day, thanks!
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
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@RebeccasFarm (90474)
• Arvada, Colorado
11 Sep 23
Ugh sounds miserable sorry about that condition you have Carol. I pray for your healing soon. Poor kitty, yes the age you know. I know this is tough on you. I read that inflammation may be the cause of it..I know you dont eat junk so I dunno. See I beg to differ with doc..stress can wear you down in a minute.
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• Arvada, Colorado
12 Sep 23
@CarolDM Good to see you too. And yes quick hurry and pass then.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
I am learning to take the good moments when I can my friend. You understand I know. I hope you are doing well. And I will be fine. Stress always takes a toll on me physically. But this too shall pass. It always does. I do not eat hardly at all, much less junk. Inflammation happens so often without a cause. The doctor said stress can certainly aggravate the symptoms. I agree. Good to see you.
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@wolfgirl569 (108184)
• Marion, Ohio
11 Sep 23
Glad she is still doing as good as possible. Hope you start feeling better
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@wolfgirl569 (108184)
• Marion, Ohio
11 Sep 23
@CarolDM Yep. I am watching Duke doberman start to show his age. He sleeps a lot anymore
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 23
Thanks Eva. A day at a time as you know.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 23
@wolfgirl569 That is a sign for sure. We have to enjoy the time we have.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 Sep 23
I'm glad Brendel is still around for you to enjoy. I'm sorry you developed a health issue.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Sep 23
@CarolDM You're always welcome. I think about you and Brendel often.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Sep 23
@just4him Appreciate your thoughts Valerie.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 23
Thank you so much, I am happy each day I have with her. I will be fine, just taking it easy. Appreciate your support always.
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@dgobucks226 (35744)
12 Sep 23
Glad to hear Brendel is suffering much less and sleeping better. Seems the meds are providing some relief. Sorry to hear about your body aches and pains. I have issues with my back that flare up so I know how it goes with the ice and Advil. Enjoying your hummingbirds and butterflies is a positive way to cope with your current situation.
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@dgobucks226 (35744)
12 Sep 23
@CarolDM Anytime Carol. All the best to you!
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 23
Thank you so much. She is better in some aspects, and then the not so good parts are there. But I knew it would be like this. I take the good times when I can. My pains came along with the stress, I am sure of it. And yes the hummers offer so much entertainment. Only a few butterflies this year. Maybe next year will be more. Good to see you. Appreciate your support.
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