My lesser three-quarters

@JudyEv (340118)
Rockingham, Australia
September 11, 2023 7:15pm CST
I’ve written several times recently about idioms or phrases. One that I thought everyone would recognise, no-one did, and others that I thought were more obscure seemed to be well known. So what about ‘better half’? Have you heard of that one? It means your spouse or partner as they are one half of the pair of you. When we married, I weighed more than my husband and even now we weigh about the same. Sometimes I’ll be a kilo or two heavier and sometimes he is. Because I was heavier than Vince, I used to refer to him as my lesser three-quarters which really doesn’t make sense now I think about it properly. I was trying to be funny by inferring that he wasn’t as smart as I was. If there a photo accompanying this, it will be of a coffee mug we bought for the people we house-sat – the one with the cockatoo.
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BarBaraPrz
@BarBaraPrz (47314)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
12 Sep 23
Nice mug, clear glass is it?
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Sep 23
It's called an invisible glass with a virtual cockatoo on it.
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rebelann1949
@rebelann (112879)
• El Paso, Texas
12 Sep 23
Darn, photo didn't show up. Yes, around here every married couple I know refers to their spouse as the better half. As for me I'm the best whole.
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rebelann1949
@rebelann (112879)
• El Paso, Texas
12 Sep 23
I'm simply reusing previously posted photos so if the don't show up you probably already saw them anyway.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Sep 23
The photo situation is a bit hopeless at the moment. I don't think I'll bother trying any more till it's fixed.
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much2say
@much2say (55616)
• Los Angeles, California
12 Sep 23
Sometimes we will play argue about who is the better half .
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much2say
@much2say (55616)
• Los Angeles, California
13 Sep 23
@JudyEv Hubby is about a foot taller than me, so I better have weighed less than him . I did tell Hubby that if he stayed with me, he would gain weight - and that he did . Yah, I've pretty much have more or less stayed the same too.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Sep 23
@much2say My Mum stayed the same throughout her adult life too.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Sep 23
It was a wonderful day for me when Vince finally weighed more. We're not huge people but Vince was very thin when we married. I've stayed much the same my whole life.
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DE
@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
12 Sep 23
Does Vince ever complain about feeling put-upon? Yes, we say "better half", too.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Sep 23
Vince complains A LOT!! Do you believe that?
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DE
@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
12 Sep 23
@JudyEv Of course I do!
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Sep 23
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Dena Miller
@Dena91 (16636)
• United States
12 Sep 23
Oh yes, I always say Mike is my better half, and he truly is.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Sep 23
Mike sounds a lovely person but I know you are too.
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Dena Miller
@Dena91 (16636)
• United States
12 Sep 23
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G
@freelancermariagrace (28012)
• Philippines
12 Sep 23
Because I am not married, I do not use better half. Hopefully soon, though!
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Sep 23
Yes, I hope it's not too far in the future.
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Amber
@AmbiePam (92788)
• United States
12 Sep 23
Yes, I have definitely heard that one!
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Sep 23
It seems it's really common.
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Always smiling
@allknowing (136481)
• India
13 Sep 23
The idiom 'better half' is not new to me. It is used quite frequently here. Don't tell me that ' My lesser than three quarters' is also an idiom (lol)
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Always smiling
@allknowing (136481)
• India
14 Sep 23
@JudyEv Who knows. It may soon find its place among other idioms (lol)
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Sep 23
No, the 'lesser than' is just one I made up. lol
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Sep 23
@allknowing It's not beyond the realms of possibility I guess.
OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (89883)
• Arvada, Colorado
12 Sep 23
I can't see it yet, but I'll try to keep seeing this photo. You were heavier than Vince? No way. Yes I know better half..course I only had worse halves.
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OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (89883)
• Arvada, Colorado
12 Sep 23
@JudyEv I know what you mean Judy.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Sep 23
Vince was very thin when we married. I've stayed much the same weight my whole life but he eventually caught up to me.
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Judy Story
@jstory07 (139743)
• Roseburg, Oregon
12 Sep 23
I am the better half that is what my husband says all the time.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Sep 23
Your husband sounds amazing too. It's nice that he says that about you.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (471547)
• Switzerland
12 Sep 23
Yes, better-half (la mia metà) is the same we use in Italy to designate our spouse, never partner, it's only used if a couple is married and only to designate the woman, a man is never called "better-half".
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Anna
@LadyDuck (471547)
• Switzerland
14 Sep 23
@JudyEv Only women, who are supposed to be "smaller than men".
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Anna
@LadyDuck (471547)
• Switzerland
14 Sep 23
@JudyEv The exact translation of the Italian saying is "my sweet half".
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Sep 23
@LadyDuck I understand. That's the thinking in many quarters.
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LindaOH
@LindaOHio (178806)
• United States
12 Sep 23
No photo. :-( Yes, we use the term "better half". Have a good day.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Sep 23
@LindaOHio Now you're skiting!! (Showing off/bragging)
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Sep 23
You've managed a photo or two lately but they won't work for me.
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LindaOH
@LindaOHio (178806)
• United States
14 Sep 23
@JudyEv I've had two post on the first try two days in a row!!!
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DB
@dgobucks226 (35615)
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12 Sep 23
Yes, I recognize the phrase "better half" when describing one's spouse. Kind of a self-deprecating way to compliment your significant other. Sadly, no coffee mug to see. Oh well, it is what it isn't, lol.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Sep 23
I wonder if we'll ever get the photo part back? I liked to see the photos of others and many of my discussions were based on the photo that went with it.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Sep 23
@dgobucks226 I'm sure it's impacting on the interaction. I'm not posting nearly as much as usual.
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DB
@dgobucks226 (35615)
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15 Sep 23
@JudyEv I wholeheartedly agree with you. The photo can not only explain your post meaning but draws the person's attention to it. A picture can express so much. Without this feature, it detracts from the site's interaction.
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M Cheung
@Beestring (14561)
• Hong Kong
12 Sep 23
Photo didn't show up. Yeap, I know the term "better half.".
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Sep 23
It seems it's one that is pretty universal.
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changjiangzhibin89
@changjiangzhibin89 (16764)
• China
14 Sep 23
I know about ‘better half’.If my memory serves me,Vince has diabetes,so he has lost some weight.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Sep 23
He needs to keep his weight under control which he does. I'd like to lose a few pounds but the weight I am now seems easy to maintain. It's really difficult to get it lower.
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Marie
@Tampa_girl7 (50258)
• United States
14 Sep 23
I’ll be happy when the pictures work again.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Sep 23
It will be nice, won't it?
Eva James
@wolfgirl569 (106323)
• Marion, Ohio
12 Sep 23
I have used better half. Lovely invisible mug
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Eva James
@wolfgirl569 (106323)
• Marion, Ohio
14 Sep 23
@JudyEv That's to bad
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Sep 23
I've just broken the handle off a mug here which is a shame.
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Valerie J. Routhieaux
@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Sep 23
Yes, better half is well known here. That's funny. I'm sure he's a smart fella. He married you. That makes him smart.
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Valerie J. Routhieaux
@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Sep 23
@JudyEv Yes, he is!
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Sep 23
Thanks. Yes, I suppose you're right. In fact, maybe he's VERY smart!
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relcap23
@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Sep 23
We also refer to spouse as the better half.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Sep 23
It seems it's known over most of the world.
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relcap23
@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
14 Sep 23
@JudyEv that is correct.
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Gill
@Gilljane (2902)
• Sutton, England
13 Sep 23
I heard of better half but not lesser three quarters
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340118)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Sep 23
Lesser three quarters is one I made up.
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Gill
@Gilljane (2902)
• Sutton, England
14 Sep 23
@JudyEv Oh, Judy
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