My Feet Are Bloody

@AmbiePam (92711)
United States
September 30, 2023 11:25am CST
I really don’t know what to do about my shoes. Most of the time, I’m okay. I can wear flip flops, and they don’t cause any pain. I wear flip flops so much I have a flip flop tan line. Unfortunately, you can’t always wear those kind of shoes, and last week at church, I had to wear regular shoes with my outfit. As I walked inside, I noticed my feet had started to hurt (I hadn’t worn these in awhile), and by the time I got home, my heels were bloody, and the top of my feet were very red and sore. A few months ago, I had enough money to buy two pairs of shoes, but I wear 11 1/2. When I finally found some suitable shoes, the place in question only had 11s or 12s, no half sizes. I bought size 12, and went on. After fifteen minutes, my heels were bleeding, and the sides of my feet were pinched. Maybe my feet have grown. Payless used to be my go to store, but they closed down a few years ago. Their online store is downright sad. The other stores that carry my size are so expensive! I bought some of those things that you stick on the back of your heel, and that should prevent them from bleeding again; I hope. Sometimes those things don’t stay in place. Do you have a problem finding shoes?
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@Scrapper88 (5983)
• United States
30 Sep 23
I usually go to Wal-Mart to buy my shoes. I might check around some better shoes next time.
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
30 Sep 23
I have, everywhere.
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
30 Sep 23
@Scrapper88 I will definitely look at them, and I think snowy mentioned them too. A big problem with the shoes is cost. Some places have my size; I just can’t afford them. But it certainly won’t hurt to look into them.
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• United States
30 Sep 23
@AmbiePam There is a store called The Good Feet store. They got several locations throughout the USA. Have you tried this store yet. I have heard that this store can help people that has trouble with their feet.
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@1creekgirl (41424)
• United States
30 Sep 23
Bless your heart, Amber! I know that's awfully painful. Even though you don't want to wear flip flops to church, I suspect your brothers and sisters in Christ would much rather you wear them than to become injured.
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
30 Sep 23
I have worn really nice flip flops to church before, but some of my clothes are too long for flip flops as I would trip on the fabric. I cause so many problems for myself. My dad told me to show up in jeans and flip flops if I had to.
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
30 Sep 23
@1creekgirl I know he certainly tries to.
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@1creekgirl (41424)
• United States
30 Sep 23
@AmbiePam I had a feeling he would say that! Your dad has the heart of Jesus.
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@much2say (55601)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Oct 23
I remember Payless . . . there's no convenient shoe place like that anymore. I have to be picky about my shoes - I have this left knee issue now and some shoes will kill my knee . . . even certain flip flops! My heels bled the most with pumps - even the flat pumps. In my skating boots, I wore this gel thing that clings to the skin . . . there was always a teeny bit of room between my heel and boot. The room caused movement and friction which would end up to be blisters . . . so that gel filled up that gap. I'm a ladies 4/5 . . . boys 3.5 with sneakers.
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
1 Oct 23
You are so tiny!
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@much2say (55601)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Oct 23
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@kaylachan (69661)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
30 Sep 23
You wore them to long to soon. In order to prevent bleeding, you need to allow your feet to get used to them. And, in Florida, I were candles or flip flops everywhere and no one cares. I don't know if I get away with it because I'm in a wheelchair or what, but that's what I do. Try wearing the shoes an hour or two a day, for as long as it takes for your feet to get used to them.
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
1 Oct 23
I only wore them two hours, and half of that time I was sitting down.
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@kaylachan (69661)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Oct 23
@AmbiePam It doesn't take much, when shoes are new.
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
1 Oct 23
I am so sorry, I imagine how much your feet hurt when you went back home. Yes, I have a problem finding shoes, because I have small feet, I need size 4.1/2, I never can find it, I buy 5 and often my shoes come off while I walk.
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
1 Oct 23
Oh, yes, I imagine that would be difficult.
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
2 Oct 23
@AmbiePam - This week I have to go find a pair of shoes. I have almost destroyed the shoes I always wear when we go walking, I hope to find something comfortable, but not too big.
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 Oct 23
I'm sorry you have a hard time with shoes and your heels were bloody. I hope the inserts help. It might be best to go to an actual store and try on shoes before you buy them.
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
2 Oct 23
That’s the problem. I can’t. That has always been my first choice, and what I did with Payless. But they no longer have stores, and every other store out there where I can try shoes on is too expensive. Going to a store would solve all the problems, of course. It’s just not an option anymore.
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 Oct 23
@AmbiePam I'm sorry it's not an option. Could you send them back if they don't fit right?
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@rebelann (112872)
• El Paso, Texas
30 Sep 23
I wish I could tell you of a site where you might find 11 1/2 but if I know any they'd be expensive. I guess I'm lucky, all I have to worry about is if the shoes are wide cuz my feet are fat.
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
30 Sep 23
Do you have trouble finding wide shoes ever? My mom had narrow, and she only found one store she could use.
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@rebelann (112872)
• El Paso, Texas
30 Sep 23
Yes, which is why I start searching for shoes before mine are too worn out to function. It seems lots of women have wide feet.
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@xstitcher (32461)
• Petaluma, California
3 Oct 23
So sorry you're having this problem. My Mom wore flip-flops so much I called her the "Flip-Flop Queen."
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
3 Oct 23
I can understand the attraction to them.
@Juliaacv (51190)
• Canada
7 Oct 23
I have always had difficult finding shoes that are comfortable to accomodate my big size 10 feet. Last month my doctor has prescribed me to go to a special podiatrist to get measured for orthotics, now those shoes are as ugly as they are expensive, I am just very fortunate to have 80% of the cost covered by my health spending account from work.
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@RasmaSandra (79833)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Oct 23
I was a big fan of Payless until I moved to Latvia. My shoe size has always been 8 1/2 and I have always had not problems finding shoes but in my life have had plenty of bloody heel blisters due to shoe quality. In Latvia, it was so difficult to find shoes because the cheaper ones had no quality and the others cost way too much,
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
1 Oct 23
It feels like it shouldn’t be so hard to find a good pair of affordable shoes.
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@JESSY3236 (19949)
• United States
4 Oct 23
Yes I do. I wear a children size 3 and my feet are narrow. Alot of stores have childish looking shoes so it was hard to find any I liked. I was getting shoes from Amazon. But I got some shoes that were too big and I got calluses on my foot. I have decided to stick with shoes that actually fit my feet. I bought some nike air shoes recently and discover that I can't walk in them during long distances because one heel will bleed and hurt. No, I'm not returning them. I just can't wear them to festivals, etc.
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
4 Oct 23
Yes, you definitely understand then. I heard someone say the same thing about their small feet; all the shoes their size are childish looking.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
30 Sep 23
Oh man and I'm so sorry to hear this about your feet. That must be awful. Most places that sells shoes are getting so expensive and I swear that they don't make shoes the same as they used to. I have been wearing the same wide clogs for 3 years now. I hope you find something that helps.
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
30 Sep 23
Thank you, Hillary!
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
30 Sep 23
@AmbiePam you're welcome!!
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@dya80dya (36657)
5 Oct 23
Yes, I can't find my size.
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
5 Oct 23
What size are you?
@Gilljane (2902)
• Sutton, England
30 Sep 23
Yes I do. I need to put mine up now, they arte swollen
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@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
30 Sep 23
Bless your heart.
@vandana7 (100280)
• India
1 Oct 23
Tan of flip flops? Evil Grin...You gave me a reason to thank god for my brownie color. Even if I tan it doesn't show. LOL Ok...seriously...I know what that problem of shoes is. I too have difficulty in finding my size. But I found my size on road side. Can you believe it? Kinda manufacturing defect perhaps ...so I got it cheaply. LOL
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@crossbones27 (49432)
• Mojave, California
1 Oct 23
Maybe just buy men sizes I have really wide feet. I have always been a bean pole but even in marines they were amazed at how wide my feet were but they knew just give him the wide boots and they did that too for lady marines. Not sure how that works in heals but if Marines know its a thing, corporate world has to know.
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@jstory07 (139697)
• Roseburg, Oregon
1 Oct 23
I only wear ten but I still have a problem finding my size. The shoes usually go up to size nine.
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@sallypup (61088)
• Centralia, Washington
6 Oct 23
That's awful. I'm sorry. I am not a fan of velcro in shoes. But due to my swollen feet I now wear Propet stretchy shoes that have velcro for further expansion if needed.
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@JudyEv (339930)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Oct 23
That sounds very painful. I know it's probably not much help but there are some very decorative thongs/flip flops out there now. Would they be an option for warm days?
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@Treborika (17673)
• Mombasa, Kenya
1 Oct 23
I don't have any problems in finding shoes
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