NEED FEEDBACK MY FRIEND WAS RAPED

United States
December 1, 2006 11:17pm CST
MY BEST FRIEND WAS RAPED 2 DAYS AGO. SHE DID NOT GO TO THE ER OR THE COPS BECAUSE THE PERSON WHO DID IT TOLD HER HE WOULD KILL HER AND HER BABY GIRL IF SHE WENT TO THEM. SHE STILL HAS THE CLOTHES THAT SHE HAD ON AND SHE KNOWS WHO DID IT. BUT SHE IS JUST SO SCARED THAT HE IS GOING TO DO SOMETHING TO ONE OF THEM. HE HAS DONE THIS IN THE PAST AND GOT AWAY WITH IT. WHAT SHE SHE DO? I TOLD HER TO GO TO THE ER AND TO THE COPS BUT SHE WONT. I TOLD HER THAT THEY WILL PUT HIM A WAY.
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62 responses
@farocop44 (447)
• Canada
2 Dec 06
Read closely. First look at my photo. Then do as I tell you. Your friend needs to talk to the police. The clothes she has are the best evidence of his crime. Dont touch them, and especially dont clean them. Let them be collected by the police. The guy said what he did for obvious reasons, because he doesnt want to go to jail. If she calls police he will be arrested and any attempt to hurt your friend certainly makes him the first suspect. Very very few of these threatening guys will go through with their threat. They are gutless. There are many agencies to help your friend also. She will be put in touch with them when she makes the report. If your friend is too afraid to go to police, either go with her or contact them yourself. Once they know and meet with her she will tell them what happened. This guy needs to feel some cold steel bars. Do it now!
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• United States
2 Dec 06
This advice, given by the fellow with the police car, in my opinion, is excellent. I want to add my encouragement to his that your friend go to the police. I will give you an additional reason why this should be done. The rapist gave your friend an order when he said not to go to the police. If your friend does as ordered by the rapist, the rapist WILL conclude your friend is his to rape again whenever he feels like as he HAS YOUR FRIEND DOMINATED. Rape is about power. Your friend needs to show this rapist she is not in his power by not doing as he orders her to do. She should go to the police.
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• Canada
3 Dec 06
Excellent additional comment. P.S. sorry for the multiple postings. Crummy computer.
@farocop44 (447)
• Canada
2 Dec 06
Read closely. First look at my photo. Then do as I tell you. Your friend needs to talk to the police. The clothes she has are the best evidence of his crime. Dont touch them, and especially dont clean them. Let them be collected by the police. The guy said what he did for obvious reasons, because he doesnt want to go to jail. If she calls police he will be arrested and any attempt to hurt your friend certainly makes him the first suspect. Very very few of these threatening guys will go through with their threat. They are gutless. There are many agencies to help your friend also. She will be put in touch with them when she makes the report. If your friend is too afraid to go to police, either go with her or contact them yourself. Once they know and meet with her she will tell them what happened. This guy needs to feel some cold steel bars. Do it now!
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@kiiizu (1901)
• Estonia
2 Dec 06
Absolutely right! This person belongs to jail! If he threataned to hurt her child, he obviously knows her, doesn't he? If your friend does not report him, he may think, she is too afraid, and perhaps even tries it again! He has to be stopped immediately.
@farocop44 (447)
• Canada
2 Dec 06
Read closely. First look at my photo. Then do as I tell you. Your friend needs to talk to the police. The clothes she has are the best evidence of his crime. Dont touch them, and especially dont clean them. Let them be collected by the police. The guy said what he did for obvious reasons, because he doesnt want to go to jail. If she calls police he will be arrested and any attempt to hurt your friend certainly makes him the first suspect. Very very few of these threatening guys will go through with their threat. They are gutless. There are many agencies to help your friend also. She will be put in touch with them when she makes the report. If your friend is too afraid to go to police, either go with her or contact them yourself. Once they know and meet with her she will tell them what happened. This guy needs to feel some cold steel bars. Do it now!
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• Canada
3 Dec 06
Thank you. I appreciate your support and your teddy
• United States
2 Dec 06
I wish she would go to the doctor at least to make sure she didnt get a disese. you can not forse her to go, but what if she is preggerz, got an std, *(there will then be a medical record if she decides to come forward later) above all be her friend, its NOT her fault DONOT (and i know you wont) make her feel like the bad guy, let me know if there is anything a country girl from Texas can do! even if your friend needs a penpal
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• United States
2 Dec 06
I KNOW I KEEP TELLING HE THAT SHE NEED TO GO TO THE ER. BUT SHE WONT I HAVE TOLD HER IT IS NOT HER FUILT.
@chua98 (676)
• Malaysia
2 Dec 06
If she doesn't inform the cops, the person who did it will keep on raping. Tell your friend go to police station and see the cops or else more innocent young girl will suffer.
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• United States
2 Dec 06
I wholeheartedly agree with you. Unless she does something more women will fall victim to this evil mans actions!
@soldenski (2503)
• United States
2 Dec 06
I can understand her. Unfortunately, the judicial system, sometimes protect's the criminal more then the victim. I would report him because I would not want someone else to get raped by him and have to go through what she is going through. Be a friend, listen to her, and help her is she needs it.
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• United States
2 Dec 06
THANK YOU I WILL BE HERE FOR HER.
• Brazil
2 Dec 06
Correct. And she can be the next victim, again.
• United States
3 Dec 06
soldenski is right. Listen to her. So sad. I'm so sorry for your friend.
@rdrelle1 (449)
• United States
3 Dec 06
a lot of people gave you good advices.. now all you have to do is to really convince her to go to the police. that way, she can put this man away from the streets and stop him from raping other women.
@jaginfo2006 (1757)
• India
2 Dec 06
well it is not right to keep that as***** on the free, he got to go to jail.
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• India
3 Dec 06
i think she should not fear him, she should go to the police and register a complaint against him....... once the complaint is registered then the police wil take good care of him, she should not worry at all........
@femcsw2 (225)
• United States
2 Dec 06
She needs to go, if she does not it will always be with her
@femcsw2 (225)
• United States
2 Dec 06
Please let us know when everything works out and that she is ok
@farocop44 (447)
• Canada
2 Dec 06
Read closely. First look at my photo. Then do as I tell you. Your friend needs to talk to the police. The clothes she has are the best evidence of his crime. Dont touch them, and especially dont clean them. Let them be collected by the police. The guy said what he did for obvious reasons, because he doesnt want to go to jail. If she calls police he will be arrested and any attempt to hurt your friend certainly makes him the first suspect. Very very few of these threatening guys will go through with their threat. They are gutless. There are many agencies to help your friend also. She will be put in touch with them when she makes the report. If your friend is too afraid to go to police, either go with her or contact them yourself. Once they know and meet with her she will tell them what happened. This guy needs to feel some cold steel bars. Do it now!
@caramello (4377)
• Australia
2 Dec 06
Hopefully your advice will be taken in this matter, but is the clothes enough, what happens if she has showered? By no means am I contradicting what you are saying, but just would like to know this!
@kaspyv (1011)
• United States
2 Dec 06
"farocop44" YOU ARE VERY RIGHT IN WHAT YOU SAY! I ONLY HOPE THIS YOUNG WOMAN THINKS ABOUT HOW MANY OTHERS HE HAS DONE THIS TOO AND WILL NOT LET HIM CONTINUE...IT HAS TO BE STOPPED BEFORE SOMEONE IS HURT BEYOND BEING RAPED!!
@iAlicia (758)
• United States
2 Dec 06
2 words: restraining order
• United States
2 Dec 06
SHE HAS TO GO TO THE COPS FOR THAT AND SHE WONT.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
3 Dec 06
i think you should really convince your friend to go the the cops, she will be protected and her baby too. not telling the cops does not guarantee that she will not be bothered by the person again, and she will only put more girls life in danger. please convince her and be there for her all the way.
@sand102 (368)
• India
3 Dec 06
she should have to inform the media first befor lodging fir because after media support .no fear
• Romania
3 Dec 06
Go to police th rapist is allwais bluffing.
@Meljep (1666)
• United States
3 Dec 06
A restraining order, protective custody, a police report and a drs report would be good things. That's so sad that this happened to her.
@Island_Geko (3759)
• Canada
3 Dec 06
the person wants her to be scared, but she needs to be strong and fight to get this person to justice so it doesn't happen again...this person may get cocky and end up really hurting the nex victim and she can prevent that. If he know he can get away with it he will continue.
• Canada
3 Dec 06
Sorry to hear , but she should take bold step and inform to police so that next person should be safed and she get justice.
• United States
3 Dec 06
She really needs to report it. This guy will keep doing this over and over. If he got away with it once, he will keep doing it.
@ru88en (2997)
• Philippines
3 Dec 06
You have to do the right thing. Do the first move and they the cop of the crime.