WTF is Wrong with You People?

South Africa
October 28, 2023 12:36pm CST
It disgusts me that people can complain about how expensive everything is (which it arguably is) and how financially constrained/poor they are, on the one hand, then a few minutes to days later, throw away perfectly edible food or perfectly wearable clothes just because they no longer like/want them. As far as I'm concerned, you can't have it both ways, at least if you want me to take your complaints seriously and be empathetic. Hell, I live in a country where there are many unemployed/seldom employed people living in actual poverty or homelessness (over half the population), walking down the streets, ringing doorbells and raiding bin bags on garbage day in the hope of finding something serviceable to eat or wear (or both). Truly, one man's trash is another's treasure. Yet, others don't even bother to consider that someone might benefit (even temporarily) from what they're discarding with the garbage. (My sister and brother-in-law live in the UAE, where putting anything out on the street is considered littering, because nobody will come along and pick it up. They say it's quite jarring to remind themselves not to do that.) Would it really kill you to put this stuff in a clear/clearly-marked bag and save the less fortunate some trouble? I don't think it would. WTF is wrong with you people? (This isn't the first time I've encountered this situation and wondered that, BTW. My Landlord regularly frustrates both me and my Landlady with how much food he throws away or wants to. Sunday night is Leftover Night for a reason ... I find it particularly odd since he's still a breadwinner and not hugely enamored with his job or earning pots of money. Yet, he'll put out on the street broken/old furniture or electronics that might need minor repairs he could make but doesn't want to, in case somebody wants it/them. As Robert Kiyosaki, author of Rich Dad, Poor Dad, says and writes, "poor is a [combination of] certain mindset[ and bad habits]". I can certainly see why, but I learned that lesson the hard way and far later than I should have.)
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
28 Oct 23
These are good points. Waste not want not. A lesson many had to learn the hard way. Including myself
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• South Africa
29 Oct 23
Given that I've been mostly unemployed for over three years following COVID-19 sweeping the world, relying on whatever I can scrape together from part-time and FL/IC gigs, so have I. At one stage, I could have created a small pamphlet on how to be frugal and save money (mostly by repurposing and reusing things that might otherwise get thrown away).
@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
29 Oct 23
@pbashton write that book or start a blog. You'll get a lot of readers.
• South Africa
29 Oct 23
@db20747 LoL. You're not the first person to suggest that. As is, I have writ a number of blogs (including on Medium, Publish0x and Tumblr) over a number of years and got a fair number of readers. MyLot policy prevents me from linking them if I don't want to get banned (again), but I'm sure they're not too hard to find if you search the Web for my username. I've come back to MyLot because my government has recently passed legislation that makes it (even more difficult than it previously was for me to benefit from any cryptocurrency I earn(ed) from Publish0x, so I'm going back to the fiat (USD) option.