How much of a kidder are you?

@AmbiePam (93298)
United States
November 1, 2023 2:53pm CST
The word kidder looks odd as I type it. Do you find that kidding comes naturally to you? I think it’s easier to do it in person rather than in a text or email because something can get lost in the translation. Of course, it hits different if a person has a history of being mean spirited, and you don’t know if they really are kidding or not. The more you know the person, the more obvious it is, I think. I probably get the kidding around from my dad, who does it a lot. Most people find it funny, but you do have to be careful. Now that I’m older I appreciate his weird sense of humor a lot more.
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@DaddyEvil (137277)
• United States
1 Nov 23
I tease and joke a lot... It's usually easy to tell when I'm playing and when I'm being serious. So far, I can't remember anyone misunderstanding me on myLot and I hope they never do.
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@AmbiePam (93298)
• United States
1 Nov 23
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@DaddyEvil (137277)
• United States
2 Nov 23
@just4him Thank you...
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@just4him (317122)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 Nov 23
@DaddyEvil I know you're a good tease. It's what makes you loveable and you.
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@FourWalls (68415)
• United States
1 Nov 23
Margot Kidder? My physical therapist was complimenting me for how funny I am (she showed me a “sidestep” exercise, so I pulled out my phone and played “The Sidestep” by Charles Durning). I love to laugh and to make others laugh. We don’t have enough laughter in the world, in my opinion.
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@AmbiePam (93298)
• United States
1 Nov 23
Margot Kidder…loved her as Lois Lane. You were probably a breath of fresh air to your physical therapist.
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@FourWalls (68415)
• United States
1 Nov 23
@AmbiePam — I’m single-handedly trying to undo the damage done to the name Karen.
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@AmbiePam (93298)
• United States
1 Nov 23
@FourWalls You’re doing well!
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@much2say (55672)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Nov 23
Maybe it's not so apparent here, but I can be a huge kidder. I grew into the part later in life though . . . it's something that developed when I finally "blossomed". Would kidder and jokester be the same thing? I was quite the jokester with my co-workers when I was working . . . oh it helped to pass the time away!
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@AmbiePam (93298)
• United States
2 Nov 23
I bet you were a blast to work with.
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@much2say (55672)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Nov 23
@AmbiePam I may have gotten on their nerves .
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@sallypup (61336)
• Centralia, Washington
2 Nov 23
It depends. You are easy to play with.
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@just4him (317122)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 Nov 23
I like a good sense of humor. I find all my friends have the same sense of humor. It makes life fun.
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• Rupert, Idaho
1 Nov 23
I like to joke around/kid around a lot lol. My son doesn't like it because he thinks we are just being mean! I love being sarcastic too, but that is not exactly the same lol
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@AmbiePam (93298)
• United States
1 Nov 23
Yeah, kids just can’t appreciate nuance yet.
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• Rupert, Idaho
2 Nov 23
@AmbiePam Yeah that is a good point lol
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@snowy22315 (181203)
• United States
1 Nov 23
I like to tell anecdotes...and do often say things in a joking manner in my "real" life. Most people think it is funny, as long as not directed at them in particular.
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@allknowing (137052)
• India
3 Nov 23
If April Fooling comes under that category I am good at it (lol)
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@LadyDuck (471740)
• Switzerland
2 Nov 23
I like to joke, but I am careful and I only do with people I know very well.
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@AmbiePam (93298)
• United States
2 Nov 23
Yes, I think it’s a good idea to choose people you know very well.
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@LadyDuck (471740)
• Switzerland
2 Nov 23
@AmbiePam I am particularly careful with people who are not from my same country.
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@wolfgirl569 (107002)
• Marion, Ohio
1 Nov 23
I sometimes do
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@1creekgirl (41519)
• United States
4 Nov 23
Our son Robert was always a kidder, always has a smile. Tammy's a great person, but when she was little, her first instinct was to frown! You seem to have your dad's great sense of humor.
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@AmbiePam (93298)
• United States
4 Nov 23
Thanks, Vicki. I think I do now, but as a small child, I was probably more like your Tammy!
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@AmbiePam (93298)
• United States
4 Nov 23
@1creekgirl That’s so cool!
@1creekgirl (41519)
• United States
4 Nov 23
@AmbiePam I guess we all change as we grow. Robert and Tammy are really close, I'm so thankful for that. But they're as different from each other as Dale and I are! Robert has my disposition and Tammy's a lot like her daddy.
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@JudyEv (340657)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Nov 23
We kid a lot but some people just don't get it and, as you say, you have to be careful. People are easily offended these days.
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• Peoria, Arizona
1 Nov 23
Majorly so haha sarcasm, puns, just being goofy or playfully sassy just comes naturally to me. Even when I am dealing with a troll, sometimes the troll ends up liking me because I'll like to play with them instead of being immediately offended. It's so fun!
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@MarieCoyle (38024)
2 Nov 23
I will tease at times, but I try to keep it light and funny when I do. My Dad was a huge jokester. He found laughter where there was none, and tried hard to be lighthearted.
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@AmbiePam (93298)
• United States
2 Nov 23
He must have been so great to be around.
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@MarieCoyle (38024)
3 Nov 23
@AmbiePam He was a fun guy. He said life was so hard at times, we all need more laughter. He was correct, we certainly do!!
@GardenGerty (160779)
• United States
2 Nov 23
I have odd streaks of kidding and teasing that occasionally emerge. Mostly people consider me to be serious.
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@TheHorse (219316)
• Walnut Creek, California
2 Nov 23
I try to kid only when the kidee will not be hurt or offended. We live in sensitive times.
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@Deepizzaguy (103377)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
1 Nov 23
I can relate to what you are saying since my late parents did have strange ways of speaking where I picked up the words or phrases that are considered original.
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@LindaOHio (179787)
• United States
2 Nov 23
Yes, you must be careful with the kidding, especially online. Someone could mistake it for being serious. Have a great day.
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@porwest (92033)
• United States
1 Nov 23
I am actually QUITE the kidder. Although I am often brash, there is a "wittier" side to me and I use it often. There are many times when even my kidding gets taken the wrong way. But it is what it is. I would change nothing of my overall personality because it's sort of my schtick in many ways and I had made part of my living from it.
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@jnrdutton (3170)
• United States
2 Nov 23
I am very sarcastic and like to kid around a lot. My particular brand of humor isn't for everyone though. @AmbiePam
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