My eldest daughter invited me for Christmas.

@marguicha (223021)
Chile
November 3, 2023 6:12pm CST
You know that I have been very depressed at how my daughter Claudia behaves with me. She lives very near my house but she has come only once for a small while to my house and I have seen her 2 more times in all these months for my birthday and for her birthday, both times at a restaurant and without my younger grandchildren. So I was very happy and moved when Tania invited me to her house in Pucón for a few days for Christmas. I had been waking up for some time thinking that I did not want to either go to Claudia´s "just because" or stay at home because she hadn´t invited me. This, friends, has been the reason of all the lots of chocolate cakes these last few months. But Tania called me and she explained me that I could either go by bus or by plane. But although the plane trip is shorter, it leaves me at the next town. And then I´d have to take a bus to Tania´s. Too difficult. So I told her that I´d go by bus in the best seats with beds). It takes all night to reach Pucón. I´m very happy.
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@AmbiePam (92749)
• United States
4 Nov 23
That’s so wonderful! I am thrilled for you.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
Things are getting mended, it seems.
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@LadyDuck (471541)
• Switzerland
4 Nov 23
I am so glad dear Marga. I know that this will be a wonderful Christmas for you.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
@LadyDuck Claudia does not seem to want to mend things much. I know that she has had problems in her life but that does not mean that I will accept the way she has treated me this last year. We would have to have a long conversation and that is not going to happen, as it seems.
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@LadyDuck (471541)
• Switzerland
4 Nov 23
@marguicha - Claudia is the one who has to come to you and apologize. It seems she is not yet ready.
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@LadyDuck (471541)
• Switzerland
4 Nov 23
@marguicha - I understand very well, I am like you, I confess that I am also full of pride. If someone offended me, I am not going again to their house. I would invent an excuse, but for me some things cannot be adjusted.
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
4 Nov 23
I'm glad Tania invited you for Christmas and glad you accepted the invitation. I'm sure you'll have a good time.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
I´m sure I will. I do hope that the bus will be comfortable. I will buy the most expensive seats.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
@DaddyEvil I´ll buy the best seats in the best buses. They have the second floor only for a few people and the seats are transformed into beds during the night. Nobody goes there except the people in charge. And besides, who´d be interested on the feet of a 78 year old woman? I will take good care of my bag, though.
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
4 Nov 23
@marguicha Just be careful on the bus. Pretty rode the Grey Hound bus from Pennsylvania to Missouri coming home from college and had a bad experience on the ride. She fell asleep and some guy started playing with her feet.
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@JudyEv (340019)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Nov 23
I'm glad you've been invited for Christmas although it does sound a long bus-trip.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
5 Nov 23
It is an all night trip.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
5 Nov 23
@JudyEv These are 2 story buses. The second story has space for mayber only 6 people. The seat turn to real beds where you can stretch and sleep well. They are more expensive but it is worth it for long trips at my age.
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@JudyEv (340019)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Nov 23
@marguicha I haven't seen buses with beds - just with layback seats. Is that basically what it will be?
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
4 Nov 23
I’m happy for you. This seems to solve the Christmas problem. Hope it works out and you have a wonderful time.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
I´m sure I will. To begin with, she finally invited me to her house and to make it better it is for Christmas. She is building the bridges that were destroyed with the fire.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
5 Nov 23
@marguicha I’m so happy for you and your daughter.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
5 Nov 23
@RubyHawk I´m very happy.
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@LindaOHio (178701)
• United States
4 Nov 23
I'm very happy for you. This is great news. Have a wonderful day.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
I´m very happy. Thank you, dear.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
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@LindaOHio (178701)
• United States
4 Nov 23
@marguicha You're very welcome.
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@shaggin (72135)
• United States
5 Nov 23
I hope you will be comfortable on the bus. I didn’t know they had ones with beds in them that’s neat! I’m glad Tania invited you! Does Claudia not want you to spend time with your grandchildren?
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@shaggin (72135)
• United States
6 Nov 23
@marguicha that’s fun enjoy it to the most
@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
5 Nov 23
Those seats are the most expensive in the market and only few buses have it. But to me it is worth it. It is a once in a lifetime trip.
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@celticeagle (166976)
• Boise, Idaho
4 Nov 23
I am happy for you. Happiest of holidays to you. I bet you are excited. Can you get all your clothes and gifts on the bus? LOL
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@celticeagle (166976)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Nov 23
@marguicha ........You have it all figured out. I bet you will have a great time--all of you together.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
5 Nov 23
@celticeagle Thank you.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
I´ll take only what I can get on one suitcase with wheels. I can´t manage with more than that. And as for gifts, I´ll ask Tania to take me to a plant nursery and will get her a plant for her house. And Diego will love money best of all.
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• United States
4 Nov 23
Very nice to hear you have your holiday plans set. Have a great time, safe travels & Happy Holidays!
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
Thank you. I´m very happy.
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• United States
4 Nov 23
@marguicha You're welcome! :)
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@RebeccasFarm (89882)
• Arvada, Colorado
4 Nov 23
Wonderful Marguicha
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
I´m looking forward to it.
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@wolfgirl569 (106298)
• Marion, Ohio
4 Nov 23
I am very happy for you.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
Thank you
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@1creekgirl (41428)
• United States
4 Nov 23
I'm really happy for you and hope it will be a very special Christmas for you.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
I´m sure it will.
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@KristenH (33386)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
4 Nov 23
I'm so glad that she invited you to her home for Christmas. What a turnaround to make your day.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
I´m very happy.
@MarieCoyle (37525)
4 Nov 23
I am so very happy for you! Sounds like a good time for you all.
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
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@marguicha (223021)
• Chile
4 Nov 23
It will be.
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@MarieCoyle (37525)
4 Nov 23
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@spiderdust (14761)
• San Jose, California
5 Nov 23
Oh, I'm glad you get to visit her for Christmas! Also, the picture is very pretty.