I stood up for myself

By E
@Karusa (703)
Italy
December 29, 2023 7:07am CST
Yesterday the ladies niece came to my work at 7:30pm. She brought her aunt a portion of cooked lentils and was acting in agony. Sat down and explained to me she wasn't feeling well, hadn't slept well the night and her blood pressure was high. Then continued by asking if I could work today (friday) my weekly day off). Because she can't take over, as she's feeling unwell I told her no, because I'm not willing to skip another Friday. She didn't take it well and arrogantly told me... "you don't volunteer, you pull away instead" And then said, "ok, it's clear that I can't count on you on these emergency times" To be honest, I refuse to be available to her, when she speaks down to me like that
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@popciclecold (39475)
• United States
29 Dec
Sure don't blame you.
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@RebeccasFarm (90298)
• Arvada, Colorado
29 Dec
Well, you owe her nothing. Sorry for her issues, but this is not your responsibility..you were correct to say this.
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• Arvada, Colorado
29 Dec
@Karusa You are very welcome.
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@Karusa (703)
• Italy
29 Dec
I do my hours and it's enough. Thank you very much
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@AmbiePam (93794)
• United States
29 Dec
Good for you! You definitely did the right thing.
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
29 Dec
She already asked you to work the past Friday. She is not sick, it was an excuse. Well done to refuse.
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
29 Dec
@Karusa She is rude, she arrived to frame you last week and she tried again. Horrible person.
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@Karusa (703)
• Italy
29 Dec
Correct! She expects full availability at all times, but sorry, I don't work like that. And also had the cheek to ask me what I do on my days off
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@cabuyogty (3053)
• Philippines
29 Dec
I like what you have said that time
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@Karusa (703)
• Italy
29 Dec
I had to
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@cabuyogty (3053)
• Philippines
31 Dec
@Karusa I see
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