Never two-sided...

@Aansh13 (11405)
New Delhi, India
January 21, 2024 9:47am CST
Relationships are not easy. They require a lot of work and dedication from both sides. But when you stop making efforts, relationships end and probable reason was, it was never two sided. This post comes to my mind, as I was thinking of my 20 years old bestie who is now not in touch with me. Yes, sometimes I do remember all the good times we had, but honestly I don't miss her. Someone who ghosted on me, what good that person can ever do for me...
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Kayla Tsukino
@kaylachan (76012)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jan 24
People do grow and change over time. Perhaps you two just drifted apart. Yes, it was wrong of her to ghost you, but perhaps something happened in her life to cause it. There's two sides to every coin. Try not to take it to hard.
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Kayla Tsukino
@kaylachan (76012)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Jan 24
@Aansh13 And, that's all you can do. You're entitled to your feelings, as is she. But, keeping an open mind helps you with future relationships as well.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11405)
• New Delhi, India
21 Jan 24
@kaylachan true, I am not a dweller in past, I seek future with open arms.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11405)
• New Delhi, India
21 Jan 24
This is the only point that I am open, if she contacts me back... I close doors, but keeps window open...
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Mildred Tabitha
@mildredtabitha (16320)
• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Jan 24
Maybe she lost your contacts.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11405)
• New Delhi, India
21 Jan 24
That just can't happen... I am connected on all social medias.... Just she lost the will!!!
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Mildred Tabitha
@mildredtabitha (16320)
• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Jan 24
@Aansh13 alright. I think you should not jump into conclusion.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11405)
• New Delhi, India
21 Jan 24
@mildredtabitha Thanks for reminding this... I won't!!!
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Amber
@AmbiePam (96505)
• United States
21 Jan 24
You are definitely better off without a person who would do that to you. It’s discouraging to put more into a relationship than the other person, and I am very careful not to take my friendships for granted.
Diana
@dya80dya (36950)
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21 Jan 24
Some of my online relationships ended. Losing friends is not easy. Some people ghosted me too.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11405)
• New Delhi, India
21 Jan 24
I think, I have learned this a hard way.... But finally learned!!!