Is it just me or.... Lol!

United States
January 23, 2024 11:57am CST
Just a thought I feel like when I make into my 40's I want to be stable in every area and really enjoy life so if by age 40 I'm not in a relationship I'm just goin to enjoy life as is I don't feel like I want to be dating in my 40's especially how the dating world is these days you really never know who you are really getting to know or think you are getting to know its scary but im in my early 30's so i still have time lol just a thought. Comment below your thoughts and if u set up certain boundaries for certain age groups you reach in general or are u just goin with the flow no matter your age ?
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Sharon Elton
@sharonelton (30362)
• Lichfield, England
24 Jan 24
I'm 54 and I haven't had a boyfriend since I was 12! I really need a boyfriend and it makes me very sad.
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Sharon Elton
@sharonelton (30362)
• Lichfield, England
24 Jan 24
@mildredtabitha No! I've fancied several but they never felt the same way about me!
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Sharon Elton
@sharonelton (30362)
• Lichfield, England
25 Jan 24
@mildredtabitha Erm. Well. Seeing as I'm not married, I haven't had a boyfriend since I was 12, and I didn't have a baby when I was 12, I'd say no.
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Sharon Elton
@sharonelton (30362)
• Lichfield, England
26 Jan 24
@mildredtabitha Thank you. I don't like the thought of being left on the shelf!
Kayla Tsukino
@kaylachan (77201)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23 Jan 24
You should always keep yourself open to relationships. Regardless your age. My husband tried to set that "boundary" and failed. In doing so he met and married me. Love isn't that complicated, and neither are relationships. The best love is the love you're not looking for.
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Kimberly Williams
@kimmyxoxo1 (28)
• United States
23 Jan 24
ok sounds convincing lol thanks for responding!
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Kayla Tsukino
@kaylachan (77201)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
24 Jan 24
@kimmyxoxo1 I'm speaking from personal experience.
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Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (42011)
• Delhi, India
25 Jan 24
I got married at the age of 29 years. I never thought of dating any one. Ours was an arranged marriage which is very common in our country.
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Danna B.
@db20747 (43438)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
28 Jan 24
How does this work? Who arranged the marriage and where do they find your wife .
Danna B.
@db20747 (43438)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
23 Jan 24
I go with the flo. But a word of wisdom, you have to go after what you're searching for. Very nice eligible bachelor's at church and on college campuses and college associations. Of course there's local clubs but certainly look for a man WITH a job!!
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Danna B.
@db20747 (43438)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
24 Jan 24
@mildredtabitha gotta eat!! Love don't pay bills.