Have you ever been conned?

@Treborika (17853)
Mombasa, Kenya
February 29, 2024 4:53am CST
l hope that the going is very great wherever corner of the world you are located in So for me everything is going so well and l am very grateful for that too. The weather has been changing so often in my place. There had been some showers since morning but it is not raining so soon. ln life l have been so lenient. l am very generous, supportive and kind to the known to the unknowns. So people tend to take that advantage and corn me. The recent incident was people borrowing money from me. Because l help people for my big heart most of them ruin away with my financial assets and refuse to pay back. Another problem with me again is that l can't confront or remind my borrowers to repay their credits. So they corn me just like that. Have you ever been corned?
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@LadyDuck (472506)
• Switzerland
29 Feb 24
Yes, it happened to us and now we do not borrow money to friends anymore.
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@LadyDuck (472506)
• Switzerland
29 Feb 24
@Treborika You lose friends helping them.
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@Treborika (17853)
• Mombasa, Kenya
29 Feb 24
@LadyDuck l too have realised that you could be loosing much of your friends trying to helping them
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@Treborika (17853)
• Mombasa, Kenya
29 Feb 24
l think that is the best solution
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• Nairobi, Kenya
29 Feb 24
I'm sorry. Maybe you should start refusing to give away money.
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@Treborika (17853)
• Mombasa, Kenya
29 Feb 24
I really sympathise on the needy people and feel bad when l refuse them while l am can give out.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
29 Feb 24
@Treborika but you should learn to say "No" to avoid being conned.
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@Treborika (17853)
• Mombasa, Kenya
29 Feb 24
That's very bad for real
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@popciclecold (39948)
• United States
29 Feb 24
Yes, but they hurt themselves in the long run. Because when people borrow from me, and don't pay it back, I don't loan anymore. They will need you again. This is sad.
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@Treborika (17853)
• Mombasa, Kenya
29 Feb 24
That's exactly what l will do them. A person that refuses to pay back lent money is like a thief
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• United States
7 Mar 24
@Treborika Exactly.
@db20747 (43438)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
29 Feb 24
I have this same problem. Then have to argue with them about my money. Sometimes we have to learn to say no.
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@Treborika (17853)
• Mombasa, Kenya
1 Mar 24
I have really understand that my friend
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@aureliah (24334)
• Kenya
29 Feb 24
yes I have been conned and the feeling!!!!
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@Treborika (17853)
• Mombasa, Kenya
29 Feb 24
That's a very bad feeling my friend
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• Georgia
29 Feb 24
And then some. Worst one was my wife's partner who we treated like a sister. My new motto is a friend who asks to borrow money is not looking to be a friend for long. It is better to give than to borrow
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@Treborika (17853)
• Mombasa, Kenya
29 Feb 24
You have said the truth my friend
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@popciclecold (39948)
• United States
29 Feb 24
Yes, but they hurt themselves in the long run. Because when people borrow from me, and don't pay it back, I don't loan anymore. They will need you again. This is sad.
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@Treborika (17853)
• Mombasa, Kenya
29 Feb 24
Indeed yes my friend
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@popciclecold (39948)
• United States
29 Feb 24
Yes, but they hurt themselves in the long run. Because when people borrow from me, and don't pay it back, I don't loan anymore. They will need you again. This is sad.
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