How do you know that someone really loves you

@thebos (5960)
Kisumu, Kenya
March 3, 2024 10:24am CST
Well for a while I have been dating a girl and we have shared a lot of memories together, eating together, going out together, but all over sudden she was called to study in a far away school college. Well it's where everything started to change, she started showing less interest in conversation. No texting back no picking of calls, but when I get a small chance to talk to her, she says she still in love. Anyone with relationships advice to guide me please
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@kaylachan (69370)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Mar
She could be lying to you, or you two have just grown distant. Sometimes the routine becomes 'stale' after so long. And, you need to trust yourself and think about how you feel.
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@Treborika (17661)
• Mombasa, Kenya
3 Mar
I think you just give her some time. Since she's in the college she might be lacking adequately enough time to engage with you.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
3 Mar
Propose and marry her to shorten the distance. If you really love each other, you should marry.
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@Treborika (17661)
• Mombasa, Kenya
3 Mar
Great advice. I bet she should complete her studies in college before she can marry someone.
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@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
28 Jul
My piece of advice, guard your heart. do not let your heart fall in love. I know you will not agree on this because it will be very hard since you have lots of memories together. But since she is far from you now, you have to guard your heart. You have no assurance of the words that she is still in love. You don't have to fall out of love with her, you just have to guard your heart. Just continue doing what you used to do. Keep the communication going, keep the sweetness and love growing, so there may be a chance that you two will be in good terms forever.....but always guard your heart. you see, i say to always "guard" your heart.
@jstory07 (139579)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Mar
You should get her to sit down and figure out what each one of you wants.
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@jstory07 (139579)
• Roseburg, Oregon
4 Mar
@Treborika I would hope so.
@Treborika (17661)
• Mombasa, Kenya
4 Mar
Then the solution would be arrived at
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@JudyEv (339548)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Mar
It sounds to me as if she is trying to let you down gently. Does she ever contact you or do you always initiate contact? I hope things work out for you.
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@Treborika (17661)
• Mombasa, Kenya
4 Mar
Thanks for the cool wishes
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@LindaOHio (178121)
• United States
4 Mar
She might be trying to distance herself from you because she will be far away. She may still love you; but she is trying to make the split easier for the two of you. Have a good week.
@psanasangma (7289)
• India
4 Mar
Communicate with her