Now, to my most recent dilemma!?

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So my plan to move out of my parents house is getting me a little confused. I don't want it to be all about me. I want to put my daughter's interests in mind. She's so attached to her Grandpa who she cutely calls 'papa'. She follows him around everywhere whenever he's home and when she hears the beep of his motorcycle in the evening she screams out in exhilaration. I feel I'm being a little selfish wanting to raise her on my own. As much as the world makes single parenting a cool thing I've never been in support of it. I feel both man and woman are an important aspect of a child's growth. But then again I feel I need to grow and scrutinize myself as a mother without the influence or dependence on my folks. I also want to instill my own values in my child and raise her my way. Something I feel will only happen when we move out. What do you think my people?