It is not just about cheerleading or missing a National Competition

@Happy2BeMe (99380)
Canada
March 25, 2024 1:41pm CST
My grand daughter has had a rough year this year. Earlier this year she was having a lot of problems with her back. She said even as a young child her back bothered her on and off. She never complained about it back then. Last year it got to be so bad that she went to see her doctor and they ran a bunch of tests and it came back that she has scoliosis (curvature of the spine). It was a shock to all of us and to her of course. When she first was diagnosed she thought she would never be able to cheer again. Her heart was broken thinking of what her future would be like but after visiting a chiropractor regularly for the past number of months her spine was straightened out and she is doing well. But there is no cure or fix. It is something that she will live with for the rest of her life. She will eventually need to have back surgery. She is only 4'10" and she will never grow any taller but that is a good thing because if she grew there would be more pressure on her spine and a surgery would be needed much sooner. Not only did she end up on her high school cheer team but she also cheers on the city team. The team she was going to Montreal with to represent the city. So Nationals was a big deal because this would be her last year with this team. She had decided two teams were too much and she wanted to focus on getting a part time job and saving money to help with her education. She wants to be a physiotherapist. She is more than just a cheerleader..she is a 16 year old high honors student who studies and works hard to get those marks. She is a musician who plays many different instruments. She is a good kid, has good friends and is very respectful and kind. She is an old soul. She works hard and is committed to everything she does. She is my granddaughter and my pride and job and when she hurts I hurt. My daughter has done a great job raising her. It wasn't always easy. She doesn't know what her futures holds but she is not going to let scoliosis define who she is and she won't let a broken hand keep her down. She will bounce back but yes she is disappointed once again. She has already had a rough year and now this. Sorry this is so long but I wasn't here at the time she was diagnosed and I just want to get this out there. It is not just about cheerleading.......
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
25 Mar
You gave a lot of good coverage, for a very special young lady! And not only is she your beloved granddaughter, she is working hard to accomplish many remarkable goals. It's no doggone wonder you are so proud of her! That girl is giving her best effort, no matter what she's facing She's truly a champ
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
26 Mar
Thank you so much for your beautiful, kind words Kharla. They mean so much to us.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
26 Mar
@Happy2BeMe It is such a blessing, to hear about a family whose children are happy, well cared for and so full of love!
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
26 Mar
@kobesbuddy thank you
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@AmbiePam (93874)
• United States
26 Mar
Bless her heart, that’s a tough situation to deal with. My mom had scoliosis on a minor scale, but my cousin has it on a major scale. Her spine got so bad it hurt to look at her; she finally had surgery at fourteen. Your granddaughter is no doubt going to do even better in life because she overcame so many challenges. And she did it without complaining, although she’d have every right.
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@AmbiePam (93874)
• United States
26 Mar
@Happy2BeMe My cousin is 30 now, and while she has other health problems not related to her scoliosis, her scoliosis is not a problem at all. That huge surgery was a total success, and she has had no problems. It’s such a change when I think about how painful it was to look at her, to how she is now.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
26 Mar
@AmbiePam Oh I am so glad to hear that.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
26 Mar
Thank you so much Amber. Your words mean so much. I am glad your mom only has it on a minor scale. How is your cousin doing now since the surgery? How old is she now?
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@RebeccasFarm (90457)
• Arvada, Colorado
25 Mar
I am so sorry this happened..it will have long lasting effects on her.
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• Arvada, Colorado
26 Mar
@Happy2BeMe Welcome
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
26 Mar
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
26 Mar
Thank you so much.
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@JESSY3236 (20046)
• United States
26 Mar
I'm 4'11. Back in the 80's, doctors and teachers were worried about kids having curved spines. I remember having to see some doctors about it, but I didn't have it.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
26 Mar
I am glad that you didn't
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@JudyEv (342042)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Mar
I understand and that would be such a disappointment. Sometimes, you have to wonder where all the justice is when such great kids are knocked down like this. Sending prayers and positive vibes that she'll bounce back quickly and heal even sooner.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
26 Mar
Thank you so much Judy. Your words mean so much.
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@Dena91 (16688)
• United States
26 Mar
Your grand daughter sounds like an amazing girl. Prayer for a quick healing of her hand and that the scoliosis won't stop her from achieving her dreams.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
26 Mar
Thank you so much for your prayers and well wished. They mean so very much.
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
26 Mar
It’s good to hear that she isn’t going to let this diagnosis define her. Attitude and perseverance will help her do great things,
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
26 Mar
Thank you. Your words mean so very much and are greatly appreciated.
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@LindaOHio (181642)
• United States
25 Mar
She sounds like a wonderful young lady. It's rare these days to find someone who is committed to good grades and is respectful and kind. You must be so proud. I'm sorry she is having a tough time. I have scoliosis too but have never had surgery. She must be a very special young lady.
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