Oh yikes. Am I the heir of my aunts and uncles?

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The family history on my mother's side is long and complicated and boring. Suffice to say that my mother, my sister, and her family/friends won't speak to my mother's 2 sisters, brother, and her brother in law. My mother and sister just have an angry streak and they love holding grudges so they have cut that side of the family off. I, however, don't believe in cutting off family so I have stayed in contact with them. They've actually reached out to me more over the past 5 years since my divorce than my immediate family has. They invite me over for dinner. They leave me random presents as well as ones for holidays and birthdays. In general they are kind and supportive. After my mother was especially nasty to me about Easter dinner plans I decided to spend the time with my aunts and uncles. 2 of them are married while the other 2 are brother and sister who inherited my late grandmother's house and who live together. They are all in thier 60s and have more money than you can imagine for various reasons. (and good for them!) None of them have children. Today at one point in a conversation with my 2 aunts the subject of my dad's passing came up and the fact that people contributed to paying for the expense of the memorial service, the repast meal, the pictures all over the place, etc. I said that I had only learned that months later so I looked like the jerk who didn't contribute. One of my aunts if they had pre-planned arrangements and I said "apparently not". She said "that's why we have it all arranged already. We don't have anyone to leave things to. . . except a niece or great-niece or great-nephew". Yikes. I'm the only family member who is down the line who is in contact with them. My sister is stubborn and would refuse anything left to her children. I just kind of laughed off the comment and moved on to another topic. It got me thinking though. . . are they including me in their wills? It is a morbid thought and I hope they live for decades longer. It kind of sounded like at least a couple of them are planning to leave some of their estate to me. Oh well. I hope I don't have to find out anytime soon.