A father outlives his daughter

@lovebuglena (43286)
Staten Island, New York
April 2, 2024 11:31am CST
I was at a funeral Sunday. The lady that passed away was 69 years old. She died on the day of her brother’s birthday. This will surely make his future birthday celebrations bittersweet. While there, I learned that her father, who now outlives his daughter, just celebrated his 99th birthday in the beginning of March. I truly hope that he gets to live way past his 100th birthday. This is a strange world we live in... Sometimes younger people pass away way before older ones, leaving this Earth way too soon.
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@celticeagle (160806)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Apr
That is sad indeed. Life is weird. Parents really morn them more when this is the case. Not fare.
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@celticeagle (160806)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Apr
@lovebuglena .......You do it with as much love as you can. There is no 'good' way to pass that info along to a parent.
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@celticeagle (160806)
• Boise, Idaho
9 Apr
@lovebuglena .......If he was able to take it.
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@lovebuglena (43286)
• Staten Island, New York
2 Apr
How do you tell someone at that old age that their child passed away?
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@grenery8 (3817)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
4 Apr
it is sad but it is happening. just like there are a lot of young people that get sick just like that.
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@lovebuglena (43286)
• Staten Island, New York
5 Apr
Why is that happening?
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@AmbiePam (86275)
• United States
2 Apr
I would not want to outlive my child (if I had one). My grandmother outlived my mother, and that crushed her. She was relieved to finally pass away. Her poor brother thought. I hope this doesn’t scar him too much.
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@lovebuglena (43286)
• Staten Island, New York
2 Apr
I’ve heard that with married couples when one person passes away the other soon follows. And I’ve actually seen it happen to some people I know. How sad!
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@marguicha (216953)
• Chile
2 Apr
I would not like to live until I´m 99 years old. As it is, I am not happy of living so much.
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@lovebuglena (43286)
• Staten Island, New York
2 Apr
They say that the day that we die is pre-determined. I wonder how true that actually is.
@kaylachan (59783)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Apr
That they do, but 69 is a respectable age.
@lovebuglena (43286)
• Staten Island, New York
2 Apr
It is still but to me it's a bit young to go. My dad passed away at 70. No one expected that to happen. Everyone was shocked when they found out.
@RebeccasFarm (87034)
• United States
3 Apr
This is indeed bittersweet RIP
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• United States
3 Apr
@lovebuglena Terrible so sad.
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@lovebuglena (43286)
• Staten Island, New York
3 Apr
And the lady’s husband is gone too so her son is now without parents. He is an adult though.
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