Is it normal for a husband to control wife's money?

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I talked to my father today. He started to yell at me when I spoke with him more. It was like I was my mom and he lost control. But this isn't a problem, I can deal with that. But he said that it's normal to control my mom's money. I told him that this was abusive and he didn't believe me. Maybe it's normal, I don't know. He is retired and my mom still has a job. She buys clothes for herself and my father pays the expensive bills. But he wants to be able to control everything and he says that this is normal. His friends told him to take care of himself because he has many problems and this is noticeable. He came very drunk at home and he could barely walk. I think that people saw how intoxicated he was. He refuses to accept that he has a problem. I think that he will remain alone. He thinks that he has the right to control everything. He wants to enter my room and control my things, he wants to know how much money I have. But I don't allow him to do this. Why should he control everything?