Short story: Gossips, and Gossiping

This rock formation is known as the Three Gossips
@innertalks (22073)
Australia
April 16, 2024 11:46pm CST
Reverend Ling Tong, a renowned preacher, was giving a public lecture, in the local community hall, on gossip. Here is his speech, as recorded by his stenographer. "Powerful conversation fosters peace, harmony, and gives out the energy of love from itself, whereas gossip eats energy negatively, and gives out hurtfulness, not love." "We should remain humble in speech rather than boastful, as ego fuelled speech will always usually become hurtful, and can turn into gossip, slander, ridicule, undue criticism, or putdowns of others." "Love only talks about those things true, and not hurtful to others, and gossip is always hurtful to all it comes into contact with." "Do not gossip, but choose your words carefully to build others up, not to tear them down." "Do not allow conversation to become idle chatter without purpose, nor to move towards it becoming gossip." "Gossip is usually the ego wanting to feel more esteemed of itself, as it thinks when it gossips about others, it is empowered by this affective talk, whereas in reality, a gossiper is showing weakness, not strength." "Gossip ties you into a knot of sin that then keeps you tied to its untruth. Gossip energises you negatively." "Avoid gossip at all costs." "The Old Testament book of the Bible, Proverbs, chapter 11, verse 13, says:" '"A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy person keeps a secret."' "So, my friends, always speak from a heart of positive love, never from a negative state of mind." "Be a trusted friend of all, not a betraying gossiper." Short, and succinct, with that last sentence, he had finished his talk for that day. Photo Credit: The photo used in this article was sourced from the free media site, pixabay.com This rock formation is known as the Three Gossips. The Three Gossips are at Arches National Park, near Moab Utah. A reminder to us that gossiping is like throwing rocks at someone. It hurts everyone it contacts.
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@arunima25 (87855)
• Bangalore, India
17 Apr
I think that if we have honest confession to make, each one of us would have gossiped at some point or the other. But yes, some do it more often. I agree with everything said here. I consciously try to stay away from gossips and gossipers.
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@innertalks (22073)
• Australia
17 Apr
Thanks. Yes, I agree, that we have probably all gossiped at times. Some people seem to like gossiping though, and it becomes a part of who they are then, and colours their personality, and life unfavourably, so they are then false friends to all, and not true friends. Yes, we should try to make an effort to discern when we are gossiping, and stop ourselves from doing so, and also, we should try to be wise enough to know when somebody is gossiping idly around us too, and so move away from them, before they overly affect, or trap us, with their loose talk too.
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@arunima25 (87855)
• Bangalore, India
17 Apr
@innertalks We all are prone to get carried away and fall to the sin of gossiping. It needs all the conscious effort to avoid it. People who are into gossiping all the time turn out very toxic. Their presence is energy sucking.
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@innertalks (22073)
• Australia
17 Apr
@arunima25 That is true they do suck energy from people, and deflate people too. Positive enthusiasm can energise people, for the good, and is catchy, but we should try to not get caught up in the negative enthusiasm of gossip too.
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• China
18 Apr
Gossip stops with wise men.Wise men know how to discern the truth and do not believe or spread unsubstantiated news, so gossip natually dissipate in front of them.We will inevitably hear gossip,what matters is how we deal with it.
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• China
18 Apr
@innertalks You are absolutely right. Wise is a continous process of learning and growing.Live and learn.
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@innertalks (22073)
• Australia
18 Apr
Not all of us are wise yet, and so we need to work at avoiding gossip, when we come across it. Yes, we need to wisen up on how we deal with gossip.
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@innertalks (22073)
• Australia
18 Apr
@Gretchen522 Yes, life is about growing wiser at living from love, and from truth, and obtaining the wise discernment to see when we have started to move away from love, and truth, too. We need to grow wiser to not get caught up in non-loving, and untruthful actions, and thoughts.
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@RebeccasFarm (90294)
• Arvada, Colorado
17 Apr
This complex is full of gossip..I try to avoided them all.
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• Arvada, Colorado
17 Apr
@innertalks I hope I can move away from these gossips..it is most unpleasant.
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@innertalks (22073)
• Australia
17 Apr
Yes, it is better to avoid gossip. I used to hear lots of gossip when I was working in a large office too. I ignored it all too, and never passed it on, or reacted to it, at all.
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@innertalks (22073)
• Australia
17 Apr
@RebeccasFarm Sometimes, like when I was in my workplace, it is hard to move away from them without compromising your own life, too badly. I hope that you can cope with them until, you can move away, as I know there are other problems too, in your complex.
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@jstory07 (139796)
• Roseburg, Oregon
17 Apr
Gossip is wrong and it does hurt whoever you are gossiping about.
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@innertalks (22073)
• Australia
17 Apr
Yes, it hurts the person gossiped about, and eventually, it will hurt the gossiper too. Anyone else that hears the gossip, and gets involved, or caught up in it, is hurt too. Gossip hurts all it touches.
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@just4him (317249)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Apr
I agree. Gossip is a sin. We need to practice love at all times.
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@just4him (317249)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Apr
@innertalks Yes, it is a tool of the devil.
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@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
17 Apr
Gossipping attracts those of similar tribes and we find ourselves in a self-defeating cycle of endless negativity. I heard of someone who told one of her friends something negative about another with the usual "Don't tell anyone". Lo and behold the same was narrated to her with add-ons soon after by another. It had caught on like wildfire. I keep away from those who gossip as they spare none including me!
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@innertalks (22073)
• Australia
17 Apr
Yes, "don't tell anyone", when told to us by a gossip, usually means the reverse, to spread the gossip, far and wide. A gossiper feeds on their gossip spreading as widely as possible, as this falsely boosters them with a false energy hit.
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@innertalks (22073)
• Australia
18 Apr
@Shiva49 Yes, and when we cannot stay away, physically, we can stay away mentally from them, by not responding to their diatribes. This can happen in a workplace, where we are sometimes "forced" to work, with such a person.
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@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
18 Apr
@innertalks Those who gossip about others to us will not spare us too. It is better to stay away to maintain our sanity.
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