What did you want to be when you grew up?

@AmbiePam (92474)
United States
May 9, 2024 3:07pm CST
Pictured is my 12 year old niece, Amyra, who wants to be a graphic artist when she graduates school someday. She just won a state competition for drawing and painting, and goes on to nationals in July, soon after her 13th birthday. I’m really excited for her, and of course, proud. I figured I’d be a teacher when I grew up, although when I was really young I thought I might want to be a news anchor. I couldn’t be a teacher nowadays; not just because of my health, but because the parents these days don’t make their children obey. Eventually, I would lose my temper at the continued insolence.
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@Juliaacv (51098)
• Canada
9 May
I have always wanted to be a wife and a mother. It was magical when I met my hubs and fell in love with him. He is my dream come true. I am sure that Amyra will realize her dreams, she is doing so much to prepare for her dream.
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
9 May
That was definitely my mom’s dream, to be a wife and mom. She did an exceptional job, as did you.
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@Juliaacv (51098)
• Canada
9 May
@AmbiePam Really, I didn't know that there was anyone else out there who shared my sweet dream. I am happy for her that she lived that dream, and that she was so great at it that her daughter is living it now also. I am sure that your Mom had a big impact on both of your lives, it may be the reason your sister is such a great Mom herself. And of course you the dotting auntie.
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@JudyEv (339536)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 May
I agree about not wanting to be a teacher nowadays. A great many of the kids have absolutely no respect for anyone else.
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@LadyDuck (471337)
• Switzerland
10 May
I remember you shared some of Amyra's art works and I think she is very talented. I wanted to become an interior designer, I know that this is something I would have loved to do.
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
10 May
Your work would have been tasteful and classy. My sister would have hired you, no doubt. Even in a hypothetical situation, I cannot afford you!
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
11 May
@LadyDuck That’s really sad. You must have been disappointed.
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@LadyDuck (471337)
• Switzerland
11 May
@AmbiePam I would have gladly helped you without asking to be paid. I was not lucky, when it was time to go to the University it was the time of students riots in Italy. My parents told me that it was too dangerous.
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@RasmaSandra (79714)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 May
Sounds good and best of luck to her, I wanted to be a great artist but outgrew that, Then I wanted to be an actress and even after finishing university and starting my first job I went nights to the American Academy of Dramatic Arts in Manhattan in NYC but did not finish the four year course so that was the end of acting,
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
10 May
@RasmaSandra How cool!
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
10 May
It sounds so exciting!
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@RasmaSandra (79714)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10 May
@AmbiePam It was for a while but I never made it to the silver screen, What is interesting is that as a young adult before WW II and emigrating my mom worked for the Riga Kino Studios in Latvia,
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@TheHorse (218548)
• Walnut Creek, California
10 May
Good for her! I wanted to be an astrophysicist and a baseball player.
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
10 May
Don’t shrinks think they’re astrophysicists?
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
10 May
@TheHorse FYI: I called you a shrink because I can’t remember if you were a psychiatrist or a psychologist.
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@TheHorse (218548)
• Walnut Creek, California
10 May
@AmbiePam Umm...
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
10 May
I hope she becomes the graphic artist she wants to be. When I was young, I wanted to be a nurse. I got part way there with a certificate as a nurse's aide. I also wanted to be an author. One out of two isn't bad.
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
10 May
Yes, and you have done such a good job as an author.
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@cacay1 (83429)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 May
@just4him indeed you become an author. You're the best Valerie.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
10 May
@AmbiePam Thank you. I appreciate the compliment.
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@much2say (55562)
• Los Angeles, California
5 Jun
Oh my gosh she looks so grown up here!! How great for Amyra - she's already doing so well in the arts . I wanted to be a million things, but I was discouraged to be in the arts as a career. All my school life I excelled in the creative stuff and didn't think much more about it. Late in high school I took an art class and I met a friend who encouraged me to become an art major in college - and that I did (much to my dad's dismay). I eventually got into the printing industry and became a graphic artist .
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
5 Jun
That is so awesome. Do you have any wisdom I should pass on to her?
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
9 Jun
@much2say Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom!
@much2say (55562)
• Los Angeles, California
7 Jun
@AmbiePam Just keep on doing what she loves doing and never stop learning . Being in these competitions builds up her self esteem and the yearn to do her best . . . it will also look great for her college resume if she decides to go. Getting in the habit of making a yearly portfolio is good too . Best of luck to Amyra!!!
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• Portugal
10 May
When I was a child I wanted to be a primary school teacher but then when I was like 18 years old because I am so shy I thought I wasn't capable to become a teacher because you need to speak to a lot of people and everyone is looking at you. Even if they were children it was still pressuring to me because I feel uncomfortable if many people look at me at the same time. So when I went to college I thought about becoming a translator or a therapist so I could help a lot of people. Congrats for your niece, she is amazing. I really hope she wins the nationals aswell
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
10 May
I was extremely shy as a young person. I can understand not wanting to be the center of attention.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50205)
• United States
9 May
When I was a child I wanted to be an archaeologist. When I went to college I was studying to be an elementary teacher.
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
9 May
An archaeologist, wow!
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@Tampa_girl7 (50205)
• United States
9 May
@AmbiePam It seemed very exciting to me.
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@wolfgirl569 (105945)
• Marion, Ohio
9 May
Congratulations to her
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
10 May
Thank you, Eva.
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@LindaOHio (178105)
• United States
10 May
Congratulations to Amyra. I always wanted to be a nurse until I got older. Then I wanted to be a serious actress. My mother had other ideas for me. She wanted me to be a secretary. Fortunately I was promoted out of that job and have held better jobs since then. I couldn't be a teacher either with the kids today. Have a good day.
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
12 May
@LindaOHio So it worked out as it should.
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
10 May
I would have liked to have seen you be a serious actress. You’re such a good communicator I think you would have been successful.
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@LindaOHio (178105)
• United States
12 May
@AmbiePam I probably wouldn't have married my husband though. I would regret that!
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@dgobucks226 (35574)
15 May
Like many young boys I wanted to be a professional in a sport. In my case, a professional baseball player. Then realism set in, and I became a teacher and H.S. coach.
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
15 May
Do you continue to be a baseball fan?
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@dgobucks226 (35574)
19 May
@AmbiePam Oh sure! I look at the stats of the ballplayers on Sundays to see how some of my favorites are doing and the 2 teams I follow, the Mets and Red Sox. I don't watch as much on TV as I cut ties with Cable TV but will look at highlights on you tube and ESPN sports.
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@arunima25 (87770)
• Bangalore, India
10 May
I was not very sure what I wanted to be when I grew up. I took one step at a time and landed up doing my Masters in Biotechnology. I loved it. I did work in pharmaceutical and biotechnology companies. But then destiny had something else in store. After my younger daughter was diagnosed with Autism, I ended up becoming a special educator and counselor..And I am so happy that I found my real passion here. My elder daughter is doing her Design degree from one of the most reputed institute in India and world. Amyra sounds so much like her when she was 12. I wish a very bright future for this amazing talented kid
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
10 May
Your family is very impressive!
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@arunima25 (87770)
• Bangalore, India
11 May
@AmbiePam Thank you. I am really blessed that way. Education is given a lot of importance in my family.
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• Rupert, Idaho
10 May
That's great, and good luck to her in July. I always wanted to be a singer so I was in choir for 6 years through school...but I was never very good. Then I wanted to write books. Eventually I got led to the graphic/digital art path. At one point I wanted to be a chef even, but my anxiety wouldn't let me go back to school for that or work in a kitchen full of people.
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
10 May
Are personal chefs in a kitchen full of people? I don’t even know how that works. I picture a personal chef doing everything in their own unless someone wants a party. In which case, I’d be nervous to delegate the work.
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• Rupert, Idaho
11 May
@AmbiePam I hadn't thought of being a personal chef. But I don't know how it works either lol.
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@1creekgirl (41392)
• United States
24 May
Amyra is such a beautiful young lady! I always wanted to be a wife and mother. I think I would have been a good teacher, but certainly not these days.
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
24 May
Oh, I don’t know how teachers do it these days!
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• United States
9 May
After seeing some of your nieces artwork I'd say she has a bright future as a graphic artist. I was always interested in nursing
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
10 May
You would have had an incredible bedside manner.
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• United States
10 May
@AmbiePam thanks Amber. There are days when I wish I had pursued that as a career but being a mom turned out to be my most fulfilling as well as hardest job.
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@cacay1 (83429)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 May
You have a lucky niece an artist. She will become rich once she grows up with her potential. She could invest her potential. When I was a child I wanted to become a lawyer but I landed into teaching at the university teaching Physics.
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
12 May
That’s a very distinguished job you have.
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@cacay1 (83429)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 May
@AmbiePam thank you Amber.
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11 May
I wanted to be an advocate. I became a law professor. But many things which I loved I could pursue as finance became a requirement. I loved painting, I loved music.
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
11 May
You are a well rounded person.
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
10 May
@AmbiePam I had no idea what I wanted to be when I grew up. That is great news about your niece. I do not know her and I am also proud of her. Happy early birthday to her and that is a very special present in order of her 13th birthday.
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
10 May
Thank you so much, Hanni.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
11 May
@AmbiePam You are very welcome Amber.
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• Pakistan
10 May
Amyra looks like she's destined for greatness with her talent and ambition! Winning a state competition at such a young age is no small feat. I'm sure she'll do amazing at nationals too. As for your career aspirations, it's interesting how they've evolved over time. It's understandable that your health considerations might steer you away from teaching, but it's clear you have a heart for mentoring and guiding others. Wishing Amyra all the best in her artistic journey!
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@AmbiePam (92474)
• United States
10 May
Thank you so much.