From Rejection to Resilience

@annierose (21571)
Philippines
May 13, 2024 5:38am CST
Securing our first job often marks a significant milestone in our lives, filled with excitement, nervousness, and hope for the future. However, for many, the path to finding employment is not always straightforward and can be fraught with challenges and rejections. I can vividly recall the nervous excitement I felt as I prepared for my first job interview, meticulously rehearsing my answers and selecting the perfect outfit. Stepping into the interview room, I was met with a whirlwind of emotions, unsure of what lay ahead. Despite my best efforts to showcase my skills and enthusiasm, I faced rejection multiple times before finally landing a job. Applications to call centers and online teaching positions ended in disappointment, possibly due to my English not meeting the criteria of American English. Each rejection was a tough blow, but it taught me valuable lessons in perseverance and the importance of continuous self-improvement. Looking back, I realize that every rejection was a stepping stone that ultimately led me to where I am today. Each setback was an opportunity to learn and grow, and I emerged from the experience stronger and more determined than ever. Securing my first job was not just about finding employment; it was a journey of self-discovery and resilience that shaped me into the person I am today. What challenges have you faced in your own journey to success, and how have they shaped you?
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@franxav (13849)
• India
13 May
Your life experience teaches a valuable lesson !
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@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
13 May
Thank you, Xavier! It's true that our experiences, especially the challenging ones, can be powerful teachers. Have you faced any significant challenges in your journey to success?
@dya80dya (36769)
13 May
These challenges stopped me.
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@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
14 May
Can you tell me the reasons?
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@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
15 May
@dya80dya It's normal to feel discouraged by failure, and taking a break can be beneficial.
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@dya80dya (36769)
14 May
@annierose Yes. I tried so many times and I failed. This stopped me.
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@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
13 May
You have had great experiences. Not everyone has such a positive outlook. Because the beginning is often difficult, and almost everyone has experienced one or more bad emotions. I also went through the same starting phase as you. Full of enthusiasm and perseverance. I wish I could regain the feeling at that time :)
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@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
14 May
It's wonderful to hear that you resonate with the journey! Starting out can indeed be filled with challenges and mixed emotions, but your enthusiasm and perseverance are truly admirable. Those early days hold a special kind of magic, don't they? While we can't turn back time, we can carry that spirit forward, infusing each new day with the same sense of optimism and determination.
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• Vietnam
14 May
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@just4him (317245)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 May
The pathway to success is marked with rejection. It's the only way to learn and do better to succeed.
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@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
14 May
Absolutely! Rejection can be tough, but it's also a powerful teacher.
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@just4him (317245)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 May
@annierose Yes, it is.
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@Ghostlady (1396)
• United States
14 May
You are right..you just have to keep trying. When I wasn't working a regular job, I worked at Temporary Services. Constantly learning new stuff and getting used to dealing with People. Never out of a job very long..seemed that most of the jobs I had, just came to me. God always watches over me. I have the best Guardian Angels, and I keep them busy. LOL My first jobs were kind of given to me, then after Business College which I flunked Accounting. Have sinced learned it with experiences in other jobs. The only job that was a hard one to get was a Keypunch job at a manufacturing company that made BlueJeans..Big Yank Cowden. I went in for the interview, but was not asked to take a test. I figured the guy didn't like me. About 2 weeks later, I saw an add for the same place, and called about the job. He didn't even remember me, but invited me for an interview. I told him I had worked on the same system at Trane Co. and mentioned I had come in before for an interview. He asked about taking a test. Told him I had not been offered one. He took me to the computer room and gave me a test. I did 18,000 Keystrokes with 1 error. Went back into his office and he was so impressed. He told me he would hire me right that minute, but had other people sceduled for interviews. I didn't have a phone, so he told me to call him 2 days later. I did, and started the next day. I learned that sometimes it pays to check back even if you think you didn't make it the first time. I worked there over 6 years. When I moved to FL, had to start at minimum wage...found out in a tourist town you made more money in a service job than an office job. LOL Love them Tips!
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@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
14 May
Wow, what an incredible journey you've had! It sounds like you've navigated through various opportunities with resilience and positivity. Your story about the Keypunch job is truly inspiring — the determination and persistence paid off in the end! And it's great to hear that you've found joy and success in different roles, embracing new experiences along the way. Keep shining bright with those amazing Guardian Angels of yours!
@HaruLoid (1588)
• Philippines
16 May
I'm currently employed in a low paying job and, at the same time, is looking for a job that pays well considering that I was recently admitted to the Philippine Bar and with all the inflation that's been going on. I find job hunting pretty difficulty and time-consuming. Employers take too long to respond to applications, interviews happen after a month or more from the time the application was submitted. Rejections were sent to me via email and the reason of rejection are usually quite vague to me. Right now, I'm currently waiting for the results of a final interview that I had last month. Hopefully, I get hired this time around. These past few months really taught me to persevere, and to never lose hope so easily. I became very mindful in terms of spending, and my patience have increased. Moreover, my understanding to everyone's desperation took a different turn as I now finally understand their sentiments by heart.
@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
17 May
Your resilience is truly inspiring! Job hunting can be such a challenging journey, especially with all the waiting and uncertainty involved. It's commendable how you've stayed determined and mindful throughout this process, even amidst the frustrations and setbacks. Your patience and perseverance will undoubtedly pay off. Crossing my fingers for positive news from that final interview! Keep believing in yourself—you've got this!
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@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
17 May
@HaruLoid Keeping that optimism alive can make all the difference. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you too! You've shown incredible resilience and determination, and I have no doubt that your efforts will lead to something wonderful. Keep believing in yourself—you're on the right path!
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@HaruLoid (1588)
• Philippines
17 May
@annierose Thank you. Everything is not easy but I do remain hopeful for a positive outcome especially with the one wherein I have undergone their final interview.