How to deal with a toxic person who you cut out from your life but she still disturbs you?

@snowy22315 She is telling everyone, my sister is shunning me! Sona drives everyone crazy, after knowing them for about two days:(

i did it but i also forgot i didn't block her on my email so after not getting me through texts, she sent me an email. talking about spying on people or something. did you have similar experiences with toxic people?

@kobesbuddy Wow!!

Sounds lazy and crazy..

@snowy22315 I already had a job, working at a daycare center! I didn't want her darn job:( She didn't even ask me, if this would be OK.

thank you, i did it. i forgot i didn't block her on my email; after the text, she also sent me an email. i felt really uncomfortable.

@grenery8 Oh there are few who gives me difficult times those days.

i think we are way passed ignoring phase, sadly. blocking for eternity. did you have toxic people in your life?

@psanasangma i hope you can handle it. i've been dealing with this, with this person since easter and if not every week, almost every week, i am so tired. before that, years of snubbing and feeling low about myself only cause i was surrounded with negative energy.

@LeaPea2417 My sister was stalking her ex, looking in his windows. The police told her, if she doesn't quit she will be sitting in a jail cell.

it really feels like stalking but if it happens again, maybe i would have to. did you have similar experiences?

@kobesbuddy dear god!

@grenery8 I'm sure you've done the right thing. We can do without toxic people around us.

i think so too but i forgot to unblock her on email and whatsapp so i also received messages there. i felt violated in a way. i blocked her for good. if she has any emergency, i can't help her anymore.

@JudyEv cause i felt lonely before in my life, i forgave and moved on but that was a big mistake cause hurting from this person kept on and on. i agree with you, thank you.

i was so shocked when this one lady for job called me and in my mind it was, no, not my sister again and, it was. i accepted she doesn't care for me, my health but for my future job, that was enough. did you have toxic people in your life?

it is work, i bet and i relate to you. this is my only sibling and i unblocked her in case of emergency. at first, i said that she can contact me only if it is emergency and she called me one time to talk. i answered i have nothing to talk about and she simply said that she thought i would forget everything, like usual. i said no. she lives just 2 blocks away and i even saw her 2 weeks ago but, she didn't support me and she clearly disrespect my decision on our relation so, like with my father, i guess this is the safest option for me, to block her for good. my father is less toxic but not once he wished me anything good, only about him and his troubles. sad when you don't have a real family.

@grenery8 My sister is the only sibling as well. My father passed away nearly a couple years ago, so now my mom is on her own . . . we are the only 2 daughters so we do need to be emergency contacts. We keep things civil (or at least I do) but with my dad gone, my sister has become extremely judgmental and rude to us. In fact this year she has protested and not talked to me or my mom (which has been peaceful actually). She is slowly creeping back in, but we keep our distance . . . sooner or later her true self will come out again. I'm sorry you are going through these things with "family". Both of my parents went through these troubles with their own sides of the family - I never thought I would be going through this at this time of my life.

@much2say what a coincidence, my mum went through this with her family and she told me later that she didn't think it would happen to me too. sad, really. you pointed that good, my and my estranged sister are the only daughters but if being at peace is being away, there is no other solution, sadly. sorry about your father and i admire how you are holding about your hardships.

you are right, i thought the same. cause she is my only sibling and her birthday was 2 weeks ago, i unblocked her, in case of emergency or something but she just knows how to disturb my peace and i really can't handle that anymore.

@grenery8 - Block this person and never unblock again. Forget about him.

i really forgot this time i unblocked her. every time she reaches to me, i feel like a victim. my fingers almost trembled last night; i become overwhelmed with negativity. i also started not contacting my father. he only talks about himself, not ever a question am i fine or some wishes for me to get better.

@LadyDuck i did and, yes, it is not easy, but i will forget about him; he is the most narcisstic person i know. thank you for your support.

@grenery8 I hope she will never bother you again and I need someone very strong to banish this one.

thank you, i wish you good luck too. yes, i blocked her for good. i tremble when she contacts me so, that is really a sign to cut her off.

@Hannihar thank you, i hope that's it from her. i hope you will find someone strong to get rid of bad people too.

This is the sibling who made my life hell and is disturbing me since easter. She also rang my doors just now.if she repeats again, i will call the police.i feel unsafe.

@grenery8 I understand.It does not matter whether a evil person is close to you or not.The closer they are;the more dangerous they are.I have experienced this.They take undue benefit of your trust.

@Shivram59 and they you find yourself alone and betrayed.

i am sorry you went throught this. i was attached to this person; wouldn't belive that once close family member could hurt me so bad and then act like nothing happened. very sad.

@grenery8 Yes, that's the only way to do it

@zhangxueying i feel i will have to call the police next time.she rang my doors just now.

no other choice, right? she disturbs my peace that i attained, which was so hard. i am lonely but i rather be at peace.

thank you, i did. the worst thing is when i am having dreams that we are all happy but we aren't but i want peace. it will be lonely but steady, which i desperately want.

this really feels like bullying. if i said no for so many times, i am not a kid to change my mind. so many things happened and though the slogan of family was that family comes first, i couldn't do this anymore.

i did, my father too though he never contacted me first, always i did that. thank you. i hope that's that from her.