Chad Called This Afternoon
By Kharla Jolly
@kobesbuddy (78871)
East Tawas, Michigan
June 2, 2024 12:22pm CST
This afternoon, my son Chad called. Hearing his voice was so nice and our love is obvious. At one time, he didn't communicate as much. I falsely believed, that he didn't care about his mother any longer.
Instead, they were both working hard to make ends meet. This is a part of the real world. If a person doesn't work, they are shunning their adult responsibilities.
Chad has always worked hard, even when he was living with us for a couple years. Jay worked at Bernard Building Center in the estimating department. Chad hired in working in the paint department and eventually, he worked at the counter.
The Bernard's were impressed by Chad's extreme amount of ambition. Then, they moved him to their newer business at the Au Gres store. Jay remained at their store in Hale at his original job.
When Chad and Kristine got married, they relocated to Grand Rapids, Mi. They did this so Kristine could start her new job teaching school, 20 miles away in Greenville, Mi.
In 2001, they bought a nice older home on Pearl Street in Greenville. They've lived in this house for 24 years and they love it!
Photo: Taken by a Friend
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@Juliaacv (51877)
• Canada
2 Jun
@kobesbuddy That is something as a mother, you should be very proud of. You raised him right.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
2 Jun
@Juliaacv Our family was taught, if we didn't work hard things wouldn't get done. And passing this down to my children, they both learned to have good work ethics.
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@kaylachan (73341)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Jun
Sounds like things worked out well.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
2 Jun
I was happy to hear Chad's voice! He's 52 years old, but still my son:)
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@celticeagle (169703)
• Boise, Idaho
3 Jun
It sounds like they have made a very good life for themselves. It is nice that you understand that and that he is communicating more now.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
3 Jun
Kristine is done teaching school this week, for summer vacation. They will be tending their gardens, almost every day. Or spending time with her parents, who live about one hour east of Greenville.
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@celticeagle (169703)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Jun
@kobesbuddy .......It's nice that they will have a garden.
@Tampa_girl7 (50894)
• United States
2 Jun
I’m glad that he communicates with you better now.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
2 Jun
Working 7 days a week, our adult kids don't have time to make phone call.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
3 Jun
Chad is really good to me. I depend on his love, when life weighs me down.
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@LindaOHio (183959)
• United States
3 Jun
Of course your son loves you! I'm glad he called.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
3 Jun
For a season, I didn't believe that he cared.
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@GardenGerty (161471)
• United States
3 Jun
It is a shame that it takes so much just to make ends meet anymore. It kind of takes the "human ness" away.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
2 Jun
His Birthday was May 26th. I sent Chad a card, but didn't get back with him when he called. Today, he called again.
@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
2 Jun
He sure found a gem, when Chad married Kristine:)
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@wolfgirl569 (109578)
• Marion, Ohio
2 Jun
Its a normal part of life for kids to not visit much when they first move out as they are very busy
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
3 Jun
Yes, that's normal when our children become mature adults. And working a job is a part of growing up!
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@RasmaSandra (81528)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
2 Jun
Glad that he is communicating with you more often, Nice that they are doing well and like their house,
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
3 Jun
Chad has always been a good son, but his life is pretty busy:)
@JudyEv (343439)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Jun
People do get caught up with making a living, etc. I'm glad you're good friends again now.
@Deepizzaguy (105225)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
2 Jun
Nice to know that your son Chad called you today to speak with you.