Am i just insane here for putting my children as 1st priority, my job 2nd, boyfriend 3rd? / myLot

United States

June 9, 2024 9:30am CST

I search this in Google and they apparently think I'm WRONG and should put my relationship first?! I'm sorry but I feel like that is super unhealthy for kids, am I really wrong on this? I WILL ALWAYS PUT MY BEAUTIFUL CROTCH SPAWNS FIRST! How do you feel about this topic? I need others input because maybe I'm just a crazy momma?

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3 responses

Kayla Tsukino

@kaylachan (71773)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

9 Jun

You should put yourself first. Make sure you're doing what you can to stay healthy. If you don't, you may not be there for your kids. But, yes, kids should be a priority, as long as you don't let yourself get lost along the way. Kids are a blessing, but don't loose sight of who you are. Make sure you're setting enough time aside for self care.

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Ella

@eliza_godinez12 (5723)

• Philippines

9 Jun

Yeah, that's right..

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Stephaney Austin

@SpyCSeaUrchin (18)

• United States

9 Jun

I love this answer so much. The correct answer is up to me. I have to decide what I need that day, whether it's self care and love from my partner or making certain that my child gets to the doctor. I can have more than one 1st priority.

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Greenery8

@grenery8 (11194)

• Zagreb, Croatia (Hrvatska)

11 Jun

i don't have children but i think this is natural for mums

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Anna

@LadyDuck (472114)

• Switzerland

9 Jun

I disagree about putting our relationship first, but remember that you must be healthy to take care of your children. Kayla is right, you should put yourself first.

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