A Conscious Shift In Mindset

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We often see memes that say things like, "It only takes one person to change your life: you." There's a powerful truth to that. Self-improvement is crucial. But let's consider things from a different angle. We all strive to be our best, but perfection belongs to the celestial stars. It is the beauty and challenge of being human to have flaws. One of those flaws is how we judge each other. Appearance: Physical attractiveness, clothing, and style, body language Social Status and Achievements: Job title, career success, wealth, educational background, social circle and connections Personality and Behavior: Manners and etiquette, habits and lifestyle choices, moral compass and values Prevalent Biases: Race, ethnicity, and nationality (stereotypes and prejudices) Age: Assumptions about ability, experience, or energy levels Disability: Misconceptions about capabilities These biases are not good behaviors for "keeping up appearances." They are poison. Particularly harmful is constant evaluation when it intersects with ageism or other biases. True and lasting success, however, transcends those limitations. As Jim Rohn suggests, surround yourself with people of integrity, not just those who appear successful. Remember, you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. Choose those who uplift and inspire you, regardless of age or background (Charles F. Glassman, MD). Neither man was only referring to moving up the Corporate or social ladder. Each told us to be open-minded, welcoming, and kind to all. Those are not impossible ways of being. All it takes is a conscious shift in mindset. Today, I challenge you to grow and become more mindful of the people around you. Look beyond appearances, titles, or backgrounds. See the humanity in everyone you meet. The connections you can forge might surprise you.