ONE Friend?

@chiyosan (30184)
Philippines
December 2, 2006 7:15am CST
Hi guys! i wonder if this has ever entered you mind. having just one friend left... like the song... "if had only 1 friend left, i want it to be you" who is this one friend in your life? have you found him/her? do you think you won't have regrets in the end if it really happens that there is no other person to turn to unless that "one friend" you identified? share your thoughts
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22 responses
@ru88en (2997)
• Philippines
2 Dec 06
The song is very touching. It is about a fellow who luckily found a true friend the he/she regard as his/her best friend. We are all bless if we found a true friend and much more bless if we found many of them in our life.
@dan20071 (724)
• Romania
3 Dec 06
That's how I feel too :). Good friends are hard to find...
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
3 Dec 06
Yes its true. I hope i can find my true friend too. I have friends now but i haven't really been through a lot to see if they will stick to me through this bad times.
@dan20071 (724)
• Romania
2 Dec 06
I have many friends, but the one that you are talking about, hasn't showed up yet :D. Most of the current friends will leave my side when I need them and I'm aware of that. The only best friend you can rely on is yourself, and nobody can take care of you better than you do. If you rely on other people you are very vulnerable. My point is that you can't possibly know what goes on inside ones mind, but you always know what's up in yours ;)
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
3 Dec 06
thank you for your post. we have the same view about friendship right now. we only have ourselves to depend on and of course Jesus.
@Perry2007 (2229)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
Please count me in here, If I could have one friend left, I want it to be Jesus Christ.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
3 Jul 08
Hi chiyosan, I like the lyric of the song “ if had only one friend left, I want it to be you’ Of course “the only friend left” here definitely will refer to my husband. He is the one who understands me very well and knows what I like and dislike. He always by my side and took good care of me when I sick or down. He always tried his best to help and to console me when I encountered any difficulty or problem on my work or daily life. It’s not easy to find such a best friend who could share my sadness and happiness for decades of years. I have to cherish the existing relationship so that it could be maintained forever.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
that is wonderful ikbooi... :) i know you really do treasure your relationship and you are right for choosing your husband, i know he will make you happy
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
4 Jul 08
Oh My, that would be so difficult to choose. I have a lot of good friends but not a single Best friend. I do not think I can ever make a choice.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
its true... i still have not decided about it yet. what if the one person i choose turns out not to be the person i thought he is? thank you for your response...
3 Jul 08
i actually it is'nt one but 3 and i really found them very enjoyable to ba with....i think i'll never regret ever meeting them they're the best friend ever......even if we're on diffrent sections we reaaly became good friends to the end, but wven if we will graduate already and reach high school we promise to ourselves and GOD that we would always be best friewnds 4 ever and ever....i think i over do it a bit....
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
ohh that's okay. when you go to different school, stay in contact... me and my friends have our own lives now too.. we have been friends fro over a decade now :D
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
I have friends now but regarding to problems there's always a person behind me...my sister!!cause we've been in many hardships in life.whatever i need her she's always there.She knows all my secrets and she's the one i always call whenever i have very serious problem and vice-versa.And I am confident that we could be friends more when we grow old...cause we used live a hard life when we are young,we always make sure that we fixed things in order.And we gain our strength by helping each other.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
thank you for your response.. that sure is wonderful to have a sister like that. i hope i can have a sister like yours... :) cherish your relationship with her..
@nitesh123 (417)
• India
6 Dec 06
i am looking for that "one friend" . will you be one ?
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
6 Dec 06
:) i can be the one friend in your life thank you for asking.
2 Dec 06
I HAVE more then 50 firends
@dan20071 (724)
• Romania
2 Dec 06
And how many of those are really your "friends"? :)
• Philippines
21 Jun 08
For me, i have found that friend of mine who is always present through thick and thin of my life's journey. I found him during higschool days. Our friendship was tested by distance and communication but still we are friends until now. Lending his hands whenever i have a problem and showing the importance of our friendship. For the instance that, i was away from my home only my parents where there, but, still he visits our place whenever there is an occassion or just dropping by. Until, we both have our own families, still the essense of our friendship never fades...
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
that is really good for you, i hope you treasure the friendship you got and never let it go.. there will also be trials and tests but you have to endure it, nothing is worth more than a true friendship.
• Malaysia
16 Jan 07
i have a lot of friends..but could not fine the 'good one' yet.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
that's all right... :) goodluck in finding the one worth keeping
• United States
27 Jan 07
I don't know if I've found one yet... After all, there's a phrase about "the true friend is the one who sticks with you even in crisis" (or something like that and sorry if I got way off topic)
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
8 Apr 08
of course not. i think you are right.. sometimes it is really hard to find true friends who will stick with you till the end, and those you can offer the song to.
@kimpert (13)
21 Jun 08
i have lots of friends. hehe..
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
i see.. i hope you do find at least one you can trust your life with
@successlog (3172)
• China
2 Jul 08
people may have more than one friend in his life.but i think you mean the real genuine one in your heart.amd yes, i have one friend in my heart.i will never forget his smile,his help to me. and the 3 years we spent together in one place.good memories.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
yes, that is what i really meant to say.. :) of course we can have as many friends as we want but is there at least one person whom we can trust our lives with? that one person you would rather have all your life ?
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
12 Apr 09
One love and many friends, should be a motive for us because the other way round will be a disaster. One friend and many love. Can this happen? One friend,just one and many love or to be perfect, too many flits
• India
26 Jan 07
I have many good friends ...
• India
6 Dec 06
not yet
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
i already found friend if ever my his the only one left. that we have been through different situation but still he is always there to support and give his advices. that his a friend who value me more. and treat me like a part of their family.
@myjewel (268)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
i think it will be the friend i grew up with who really knows me all my life. i think she will be the one to be there for me and stay with me through thick and thin. i hope i'm not doing a wrong choice here.
@hibiki (54)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
have lotsa friend. but theres only one person i consider my bestfriend. weve been friends for 11 years now. and we treat each other as sisters. she knows me better than anyone else. we shared a lot of ups and downs. And just like the song if ever i had one friend left, i would still choose her.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
14 Apr 08
I can assigned to these 4 people in my life! Since, they are the person whom I can trust best and whom I know will never get tired of me whatever my limitations are! My Dad, Mom, Sis and husband! Their love is just unconditional!!!!!