Im a teen with daddy issues.
By Maram
@maramm (18)
Carthage, Tunisia
July 10, 2024 6:14pm CST
Hi everyone, today, i mean 2 hours ago my dad started yelling at me. He wants me to study during vacation. I think that's ridiculous. Anyways, once you're habituated to the insults you build whether a strong unbreakable personality or a psychopathic one 
. But im always trying to controle myself and do not isolate myself . Also im focusing on being a kind person, not a mean persin like my dad 
. I was asking AI how to stop crying using only water and air.
. But im always trying to controle myself and do not isolate myself . Also im focusing on being a kind person, not a mean persin like my dad . I was asking AI how to stop crying using only water and air.6 people like this
6 responses
@MarieCoyle (37480)
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11 Jul
We welcome you to mylot, and hope you like it here!
I am sure it’s hard to be a teenager in today’s world. In all honesty, your Dad may just be afraid for you and scared for what your future could be. Times are changing so quickly, and no one really knows the path this crazy world is on. I do try to think from a young and and older view of things.
It’s tough to be a parent, too. Try to reach a compromise if you can. That will show your Dad that you are listening and you care about his interests and appreciate him, but that in some ways you need to find your own way.
Yes, this is the views and opinion of a person who raised a big family-me. Parents struggle just like young people do—we have to learn as we go along. When we have children, they don’t come with an instruction manual so it’s a learning process. Try to just take one day at a time. Hang in there!!
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@kaylachan (69712)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
11 Jul
As a child, you should do as you're told. He just wants the best for you. He's not asking you to do something that will harm you. If you do it the first time, he won't have a reason to yell.
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@marguicha (223010)
• Chile
11 Jul
i have met toxic people. And the only way that they can´t hurt me is by not listening to them. Bye. No matter if he/she is the king or queen of the universe.
@psanasangma (7288)
• India
11 Jul
I may not be the right person to comments however I feels that he only wants you to invest in books so that you can gain knowledge... we can't say what is in his mind what he wants you to be. Perhaps he wants you to be a better person with wisdom and knowledge. What I could say is yes parents do yell and even grumble, sometimes its beyond tolerating I bet.. in that case calm down, take a long breathe and don't take too much personally
@porwest (90876)
• United States
11 Jul
Parenting is a tough gig, and kids think they know it all. I remember being a kid and thinking my parents were out of their minds. Now that I am much older, and much more mature, I can be thankful for them being what they are supposed to be. Parents.
You will appreciate these moments way more than you can understand now, one day. Trust me. Keep in mind, they have already been where you are now. That's why I can assure you...they know what they are talking about.
@Hanbinandaeyo (3303)
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11 Jul
Vacation is not always meant to not study.. Sometimes it means to enhance oneself, maybe your dad wants you to improve in academic. give him a chance..
On the other hand, please give yourself some timeout once and a while. I mean, after studying in the morning, you could do leisure activities afterward..
balance it
