Love and Goals
By Curlann
@annierose (21589)
Philippines
July 13, 2024 5:19am CST
Have you ever felt torn between your personal growth and your feelings for someone you love? It's like when you're in a relationship where you care deeply about your partner, but your ambitions and dreams for the future take you in a different direction. For instance, maybe you want to pursue a career that involves a lot of travel and adventure, but your partner prefers a stable, settled life close to home. Despite your love for each other, these differences in aspirations can create challenges and make you question how to balance your personal growth with maintaining a loving relationship. It's a tough situation where you have to navigate between following your dreams and nurturing your relationship.
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@annierose (21589)
• Philippines
14 Jul
That sounds tough, Valerie. It can be hard when your desires for adventure and your partner's preferences don't align. I'm sure it took a lot of understanding and compromise. Thanks for sharing your experience.
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@just4him (317038)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Jul
@annierose The compromise ended when we got divorced.
@annierose (21589)
• Philippines
16 Jul
@just4him I'm sorry to hear that it ended that way. Sometimes, despite our best efforts, things don't work out as we hope. I hope you've found more opportunities to pursue what brings you joy and fulfillment since then.
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@2ndchances24 (7489)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
13 Jul
it's a hard thing to decide in any relationship.
I have found that it all depends on what you want out of life
& you take time to decide instead of just jumping into ether 1
right off the bat, cause either or both can take a bad turn.
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@annierose (21589)
• Philippines
14 Jul
You're right, Gayle. Taking the time to decide what's truly important to you before making any big moves is so crucial. Life is full of tough decisions, and it's important to find a balance that feels right for you.
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@annierose (21589)
• Philippines
15 Jul
@2ndchances24 That's so true, Gayle. Sometimes we learn the most from our mistakes and tough experiences. It's all part of growing and finding what truly matters to us.
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@2ndchances24 (7489)
• Cloverdale, Indiana
14 Jul
@annierose we don't learn that till we've had a
taste of our bad lucks & choices in life.
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@allknowing (132209)
• India
14 Jul
Not easy at all. Depends how tolerant the partner is if one insists on going for one's dream. Whoever they are I wish them good luck
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@annierose (21589)
• Philippines
14 Jul
It’s definitely not easy! Finding that balance can be challenging. I agree, having a supportive and tolerant partner can make a big difference.
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@annierose (21589)
• Philippines
14 Jul
@allknowing Absolutely, it's inspiring to see couples who manage to support each other and find a balance. Mutual understanding and compromise can make a huge difference in a relationship.
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@allknowing (132209)
• India
14 Jul
@annierose There are many couples who get along well pleasing each other.
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@annierose (21589)
• Philippines
14 Jul
I understand, Reine. Sometimes personal priorities take precedence over relationships. It's great that you're clear about what matters most to you right now. Everyone's journey is different, and that's okay.
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