neighbors moving

@pellwell (268)
August 2, 2024 7:56pm CST
I found out my neighbors are moving, and I have to admit, I was quite upset about it. We've lived next door to each other for years now, and we've developed a nice friendship over time. I'll miss our little chats in the driveway, borrowing tools from each other, and even just seeing their friendly faces when I look out my window. It feels like a piece of my daily routine is being taken away, and it's hard to imagine not having them just a across the way anymore. I'm not sure why it hit me so hard - maybe it's the fear of the unknown, or the thought of getting used to new neighbors all over again. But one thing's for sure: their departure will definitely leave a void in our little neighborhood.
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Curlann
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
3 Aug
It's tough when neighbors you've grown close to over the years move away. Those little chats, borrowing tools, and seeing their friendly faces become such a comforting part of daily life. It’s natural to feel a bit unsettled and emotional about it. The unknown can be daunting, and getting used to new neighbors will take some time.
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Curlann
@annierose (21583)
• Philippines
9 Aug
@pellwell Definitely, Rachel. It’s never easy to say goodbye to familiar faces and routines.
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rachel pell
@pellwell (268)
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3 Aug
for sure
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UmiNoor
@UmiNoor (4523)
• Malaysia
3 Aug
I feel the same way when my children move out. But I know I can't have them to myself forever. They have to learn to live on their own two feet one day.
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rachel pell
@pellwell (268)
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3 Aug
my children moved out long time ago..almost everyone on our street are empty nesters
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popciclecold
@popciclecold (38748)
• United States
3 Aug
I hate to hear it but it happens. Whenever my neighbor move, my fear is what will the next one be like, especially if they were good people.
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popciclecold
@popciclecold (38748)
• United States
3 Aug
@pellwell Exactly
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rachel pell
@pellwell (268)
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3 Aug
fear of the unknown
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Kayla Tsukino
@kaylachan (69824)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Aug
That sometimes happens and saddly there isn't always anything we can do about it. People come and go, and it's not like you won't stay in contact. May not feel the same, but you'll still be friends.
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rachel pell
@pellwell (268)
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3 Aug
Thank you for making me feel better
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Anish Asokan
@RevivedWarrior (2239)
• India
3 Aug
Well, I understand what you are going through . Changes are unevitable. However our minds are not acquainted to changes . Changes actually affect our thoughts on security and stability. Consider, when we were in school, college or when we changed jobs. Over a period of time, we have lost touch with many and even if try that old intimacy may not be present.They would have all moved on with their lives.Well, hopefully you will better neighbours. Perhaps it may be fun to start all over. Good luck!
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rachel pell
@pellwell (268)
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3 Aug
I hope the new neighbors are as good as the ones who are leaving.
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yoooufi
@yoooufi (137)
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10 Aug
You must feel lost, especially since you have been friends for years. Hopefully, another good friend will come and become your neighbor.
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rachel pell
@pellwell (268)
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10 Aug
I do feel lost ..keeping busy!
Judy Story
@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Aug
It is sad when a neighbor moves away and leaves you wondering. What will the new ones be like.
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Claire Wamaitha Waithaka
@klarita (8)
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3 Aug
I feel you because it's always hard to detach yourself from people who are very friendly and who you share a strong bond with. Hopefully you will get new friendly neighbour's and who knows they might be better than them.
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